"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Best Reply To This Text She Sent

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I MEET THIS CUTE FOXY RUSSIAN BABE..

Shes HERE FOR 3 WEEKS!!!!

THE DAY i met her i sent her a text at night and got a reply in 10 secs...

Next night i send Her another TExt...at Night

She replys in the evening the next Day with THIS!!!

Hi, Jason sorry darling yesterd was clubbing didnt c ur txt. how are u? i,m working today :( have a funny day :-D

so whats the best reply to this Baby....
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Call her up and ask her if she wants to hang out tonight. Just the two of us.


Fear not. She wants to.
 
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Seriously, forget all this texting nonsense. Don't be a girl.
 
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While you were thinking about her and waiting for a response to your text message she was out partying, getting hit on by numerous guys, probably getting bumped and grinded, and making out and heading home with some guy.

Forget texts, it's a weak form of communication. Call her up very soon (she's not there long) suggest a date for a specific time and activity - if she rejects it and doesn't counter offer move on. You have nothing to lose.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Beware of girls that use "darling". They are playahs.
 
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For all of you knockin' text game:

http://blog.seandeacon.com/articles/text-game


By no means am I saying you should rely on texts, but it's an open venue.

Answer her "how are you" with something outrageous, or just ignore it and tell her to go out with you. (by phone or text)

tmpgstx said:
Beware of girls that use "darling". They are playahs.
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Yep, be careful
 
Poonani Maker

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Forget her. There are other fish.
 
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No don't forget her. You guys misunderstanding the situation.


She is from Russia (my home country). She's here for two weeks, she'll be going back soon. She wants a boyfriend in here. She'll do anything to get one. Call her, take her out, tap her. She's one of the easy girls.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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dont text her back, call her back and set a get together
 
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Stuntmann said:
No don't forget her. You guys misunderstanding the situation.


She is from Russia (my home country). She's here for two weeks, she'll be going back soon. She wants a boyfriend in here. She'll do anything to get one. Call her, take her out, tap her. She's one of the easy girls.
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That is why time is of the essence, my friend, and a text is not in order. Make that call.
 
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Stuntmann said:
No don't forget her. You guys misunderstanding the situation.


She is from Russia (my home country). She's here for two weeks, she'll be going back soon. She wants a boyfriend in here. She'll do anything to get one. Call her, take her out, tap her. She's one of the easy girls.
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agree....she should be eazzzy...just call her already...
 
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