"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Go out and talk to women instead of looking for advice or products.

Experience is the best teacher.
 
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Pro tip: don't get into PUA. It's a scam that preys on lonely, desperate men. Spend nothing, you can do it on your own with your own mind.
 
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VladPatton said:
Pro tip: don't get into PUA. It's a scam that preys on lonely, desperate men. Spend nothing, you can do it on your own with your own mind.
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Agreed.

A lot of guys buy into it because of how desperate they are. But the truth is, that PUA's like Tyler have absolutely no track record of turning AFC's into players. They just run the bootcamp, get paid, and that's it. There's no actual proof that any of their stuff works for the majority of men that sign up for it. They just sell the bootcamp so that you'll come back and do another bootcamp.
 
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Read Corey Wayne's book "How to be a 3% Man" and watch his videos on youtube, that's all you need. I stumbled across one of his videos last year after a break-up and he's completely changed my perspective on dating and relationships, it's good stuff. I don't agree with everything he says, but overall, he gets it.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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j_syrinate said:
Read Corey Wayne's book "How to be a 3% Man" and watch his videos on youtube, that's all you need. I stumbled across one of his videos last year after a break-up and he's completely changed my perspective on dating and relationships, it's good stuff. I don't agree with everything he says, but overall, he gets it.
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Why don't you write a thread with his best examples and points would really help and be appreciated ?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The PUA concepts do work at some level, but the truth is no one can turn you into something that you are NOT, unless you work on yourself.

I just finished Wayne's book... really it's Dr. Love with sex, so it's okay. But I found Wayne's book a bit long winded with some tedious examples from his own life. He pretty much follows the formula of many in this business... He claims he used to be a complete idiot with women, and now he isn't.

I would stay away from PUA stuff. Read "The System", by Doc Love, an oldie but a goody, it reads fast, is funny, and pretty much defines what women really respond to, filled with great advice like 'If a woman says ANYTHING except yes, then the answer is no, and the man should move on.'

Then read "Book of Pook", brilliant stuff.

Work on yourself, get in shape, be happy with yourself, learn to walk away from women that are not interested in you. Develop confidence, and exhibit self control, but yourself first and everything will work out for you in the end.
 
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I think that the only usefull thing it brings is it actually makes peeps go out and talk to women. So that puts their game on track and not the actual "tricks" or whatever, there are no such tricks, women are not retarded, they just pretend to be.
 
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