"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Go out and talk to women instead of looking for advice or products.

Experience is the best teacher.
 
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Pro tip: don't get into PUA. It's a scam that preys on lonely, desperate men. Spend nothing, you can do it on your own with your own mind.
 
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VladPatton said:
Pro tip: don't get into PUA. It's a scam that preys on lonely, desperate men. Spend nothing, you can do it on your own with your own mind.
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Agreed.

A lot of guys buy into it because of how desperate they are. But the truth is, that PUA's like Tyler have absolutely no track record of turning AFC's into players. They just run the bootcamp, get paid, and that's it. There's no actual proof that any of their stuff works for the majority of men that sign up for it. They just sell the bootcamp so that you'll come back and do another bootcamp.
 
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Read Corey Wayne's book "How to be a 3% Man" and watch his videos on youtube, that's all you need. I stumbled across one of his videos last year after a break-up and he's completely changed my perspective on dating and relationships, it's good stuff. I don't agree with everything he says, but overall, he gets it.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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j_syrinate said:
Read Corey Wayne's book "How to be a 3% Man" and watch his videos on youtube, that's all you need. I stumbled across one of his videos last year after a break-up and he's completely changed my perspective on dating and relationships, it's good stuff. I don't agree with everything he says, but overall, he gets it.
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Why don't you write a thread with his best examples and points would really help and be appreciated ?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The PUA concepts do work at some level, but the truth is no one can turn you into something that you are NOT, unless you work on yourself.

I just finished Wayne's book... really it's Dr. Love with sex, so it's okay. But I found Wayne's book a bit long winded with some tedious examples from his own life. He pretty much follows the formula of many in this business... He claims he used to be a complete idiot with women, and now he isn't.

I would stay away from PUA stuff. Read "The System", by Doc Love, an oldie but a goody, it reads fast, is funny, and pretty much defines what women really respond to, filled with great advice like 'If a woman says ANYTHING except yes, then the answer is no, and the man should move on.'

Then read "Book of Pook", brilliant stuff.

Work on yourself, get in shape, be happy with yourself, learn to walk away from women that are not interested in you. Develop confidence, and exhibit self control, but yourself first and everything will work out for you in the end.
 
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I think that the only usefull thing it brings is it actually makes peeps go out and talk to women. So that puts their game on track and not the actual "tricks" or whatever, there are no such tricks, women are not retarded, they just pretend to be.
 
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