SalParadise
Don Juan
I only check this board for the stuff A-Unit writes now. Substance, insight, breadth and unique views.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Best poster of 2005
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
MindOverMatter
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DrBeard.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
I like A-Unit, becuase he always brings something new and unique to the table. Rollo cracks me up with what he says sometimes, but he is always right.
Westcoaster is starting to grow on me a little as is MindOverMatter
Westcoaster is starting to grow on me a little as is MindOverMatter
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
I like A-Unit, becuase he always brings something new and unique to the table. Rollo cracks me up with what he says sometimes, but he is always right.
Westcoaster is starting to grow on me a little as is MindOverMatter
Definatly can't leave out Star8up, does a great job covering investing and in all honestly, I never would have given Real Estate investing a second look if he didn't shove it down my throat every other post
JK.. but in seriousness I am looking to invest in some real estate pretty soon and I owe it to his stubborness to drill it in our heads
Westcoaster is starting to grow on me a little as is MindOverMatter
Definatly can't leave out Star8up, does a great job covering investing and in all honestly, I never would have given Real Estate investing a second look if he didn't shove it down my throat every other post
JK.. but in seriousness I am looking to invest in some real estate pretty soon and I owe it to his stubborness to drill it in our headsAC/DC
Master Don Juan
Dr. Beard
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
damn.. you know what's sad? I copied that from another site, i didn't even bother to look at the spelling.. but I'll fix it
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
Warboss, for introducing DC Training ideas to the H+F board.
resilient
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I actually just wrote this in a different thread concerning the bootcamp I'm about to go on, but a few acknowledgements of DJs that really saved my AFC back from oneitis these last few months via PM/email:
Joekker113 (man living with virtues as a knight)
SeldomSeen (introduced me to the 48 laws of power )
Backbreaker (two words: end game. I'll never forget that...)
Rollo T (explained my misconceptions of goal-state myth, falacy of one, desire dynamic and plate spin theory)
WestCoaster (helped me out with analysis/paralysis)
TrimReaper (personal break up story)
The Anti Dr. Phil (taught me chess tactics analogy to dating/kaiser soze methodology/behavioralism).
So pimp its scary (inner game goals)
A-Unit (awesome book recommendations bro!)
Overall, Joekker113. I really was bummed when he bounced from the board, because he wrote some great thought provoking threads. He saved the day via PM immediately when I was about to quarrel with my ex and the punk sailor that stole her away from me in the LDR I was in. Long story, but a lot know about it here... Thankfully that **** is over with and I'm sarging w/o a drink gaining confidence every weekend now, the DJ way. The tables are definately turning thanks to the help of the awesome DJs here. The board has really changed my life dramatically in the last few months.
Joekker113 (man living with virtues as a knight)
SeldomSeen (introduced me to the 48 laws of power )
Backbreaker (two words: end game. I'll never forget that...)
Rollo T (explained my misconceptions of goal-state myth, falacy of one, desire dynamic and plate spin theory)
WestCoaster (helped me out with analysis/paralysis)
TrimReaper (personal break up story)
The Anti Dr. Phil (taught me chess tactics analogy to dating/kaiser soze methodology/behavioralism).
So pimp its scary (inner game goals)
A-Unit (awesome book recommendations bro!)
Overall, Joekker113. I really was bummed when he bounced from the board, because he wrote some great thought provoking threads. He saved the day via PM immediately when I was about to quarrel with my ex and the punk sailor that stole her away from me in the LDR I was in. Long story, but a lot know about it here... Thankfully that **** is over with and I'm sarging w/o a drink gaining confidence every weekend now, the DJ way. The tables are definately turning thanks to the help of the awesome DJs here. The board has really changed my life dramatically in the last few months.
First of all:
English is not my first language, so please be gentle with me...
So, the poster who most definately had the biggest influence on how I look at the world was/is Rollo Tomassi (might also be because I enjoy reading the mature man's forum the most).
Most of the time his posts were dead on and one can draw a lot of wisdom from his texts.
2 thumps up for this man!
Also I'd like to add, there are lots of good poster with interesting ideas on the sosuave boards!
English is not my first language, so please be gentle with me...
So, the poster who most definately had the biggest influence on how I look at the world was/is Rollo Tomassi (might also be because I enjoy reading the mature man's forum the most).
Most of the time his posts were dead on and one can draw a lot of wisdom from his texts.
2 thumps up for this man!
Also I'd like to add, there are lots of good poster with interesting ideas on the sosuave boards!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
I swear A-Unit has a mini libary in his house. He can probably make a nice profit renting out books. I have some books but DAMN
wavejams007
Master Don Juan
I don't really have many favorites, other than myself, but I like anyone who doesn't post crap and posts good, consistent stuff.
I guess two guys that come to mind are Solid and Shezzler. Both these guys encourage FRs and for people to go out and get expereince, and I personally know that that is the best advice someone can give to anybody in order to make them better.
But just for fun, I am nominating myself, wavejams007.
, but I like anyone who doesn't post crap and posts good, consistent stuff.I guess two guys that come to mind are Solid and Shezzler. Both these guys encourage FRs and for people to go out and get expereince, and I personally know that that is the best advice someone can give to anybody in order to make them better.
But just for fun, I am nominating myself, wavejams007.
BingoBango
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i like dbot's posts