skip2mylou781
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Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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No kidding. QUIT MAKING NEW THREADS!!! I can barely keep up with the real ones.
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it is getting abit much skip......
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
skip2mylou781
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i made a new thread cuz its in the TIPS section and nobody goes to that, so bumping it woulda made no sense
lemme get it straight, i bring up a post by another user which i think is the most inspirations shyt i ever read, and im gettin hated on for THAT?
lemme get it straight, i bring up a post by another user which i think is the most inspirations shyt i ever read, and im gettin hated on for THAT?
Nobody goes to that? That's a load of phooey.skip2mylou781 said:i made a new thread cuz its in the TIPS section and nobody goes to that, so bumping it woulda made no sense
lemme get it straight, i bring up a post by another user which i think is the most inspirations shyt i ever read, and im gettin hated on for THAT?
It's how you go about it dude. You make a brand new thread, in a completely irrelevent section, with just a link and a few words. In your eyes it's constructive, in a lot of other eyes it's spam. People are noticing just how many silly posts you make every day.
Cut the crap out of your posting, and people will start respecting what you have to say. Maybe.