"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Best Places to Meet Women?

dmvmang

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I was wondering if you guys have any suggestions on places to meet women? I do work in the fitness field but my gym is more a family enviornment. I posted to something about another women, and it just didn't workout. I just lost interest, and she is not for me.

I do like to do my work at starbucks to clear my mind. When I sat down last month, I was suprised how many pretty women came in there. I will be 30 sunday man and time is ticking lol. If you have any other suggestions I would appreciate it. So far I have the gym, starbucks or maybe salsa dancing. I'm a homebody, but I need to get out a bit more. Thx
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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CrispyG

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That's it? Man you can meet women everywhere. The supermarket. The street. A concert. A bar. A comedy club. The taco place. Personally I make an effort to meet new guys too, because the amount of new women I've met through them is crazy, and so much more useful socially than going out and cold approaching, for me at least. A lot of guys spend their time just randomly approaching or trying to meet women, but there is so much value in just investing in a tighter, more interesting social circle, maybe with guys who are on edgier walks of life if you're a more reserved guy, as an example.
 

bluenorther

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Find more dance venues... salsa is a good start but there are many other styles, and prolly lots of locations you don't ordinarily think of.
Take horseback riding lessons. I work at the riding stables shoeing horses and the only men I see are other horseshoers, and the meskin "help". You'll meet some awesome horses, if nothing else, plus it's a he11uva physical challenge besides.
Get involved with Ren Fairs/Pirate Fairs; women love playing dressup... and showing loads of cleavage.
Take a class in art history.
I was at a free concert downtown last month and there was NO babe-watching to speak of. Then, THE hottest dame in town got dragged over by her friend to dance with me. At the Pirate Fair, I was hit up by a HB pirate we-nch for a dance, because her boyfriend was being a chode. Just put yourself out there and opportunities will find you.
 

bluenorther

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Find more dance venues... salsa is a good start but there are many other styles, and prolly lots of locations you don't ordinarily think of.
Take horseback riding lessons. I work at the riding stables shoeing horses and the only men I see are other horseshoers, and the meskin "help". You'll meet some awesome horses, if nothing else, plus it's a he11uva physical challenge besides.
Get involved with Ren Fairs/Pirate Fairs; women love playing dressup... and showing loads of cleavage.
Take a class in art history.
I was at a free concert downtown last month and there was NO babe-watching to speak of. Then, THE hottest dame in town got dragged over by her friend to dance with me. At the Pirate Fair, I was hit up by a HB pirate we-nch for a dance, because her boyfriend was being a chode. Just put yourself out there and opportunities will find you.
 

Tomthebomb

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The two ways I meet most women:

1. Through friends
2. At work (especiallly when you work in a hospital)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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