"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Best Places to Meet Women?

dmvmang

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I was wondering if you guys have any suggestions on places to meet women? I do work in the fitness field but my gym is more a family enviornment. I posted to something about another women, and it just didn't workout. I just lost interest, and she is not for me.

I do like to do my work at starbucks to clear my mind. When I sat down last month, I was suprised how many pretty women came in there. I will be 30 sunday man and time is ticking lol. If you have any other suggestions I would appreciate it. So far I have the gym, starbucks or maybe salsa dancing. I'm a homebody, but I need to get out a bit more. Thx
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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CrispyG

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That's it? Man you can meet women everywhere. The supermarket. The street. A concert. A bar. A comedy club. The taco place. Personally I make an effort to meet new guys too, because the amount of new women I've met through them is crazy, and so much more useful socially than going out and cold approaching, for me at least. A lot of guys spend their time just randomly approaching or trying to meet women, but there is so much value in just investing in a tighter, more interesting social circle, maybe with guys who are on edgier walks of life if you're a more reserved guy, as an example.
 

bluenorther

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Find more dance venues... salsa is a good start but there are many other styles, and prolly lots of locations you don't ordinarily think of.
Take horseback riding lessons. I work at the riding stables shoeing horses and the only men I see are other horseshoers, and the meskin "help". You'll meet some awesome horses, if nothing else, plus it's a he11uva physical challenge besides.
Get involved with Ren Fairs/Pirate Fairs; women love playing dressup... and showing loads of cleavage.
Take a class in art history.
I was at a free concert downtown last month and there was NO babe-watching to speak of. Then, THE hottest dame in town got dragged over by her friend to dance with me. At the Pirate Fair, I was hit up by a HB pirate we-nch for a dance, because her boyfriend was being a chode. Just put yourself out there and opportunities will find you.
 

bluenorther

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Find more dance venues... salsa is a good start but there are many other styles, and prolly lots of locations you don't ordinarily think of.
Take horseback riding lessons. I work at the riding stables shoeing horses and the only men I see are other horseshoers, and the meskin "help". You'll meet some awesome horses, if nothing else, plus it's a he11uva physical challenge besides.
Get involved with Ren Fairs/Pirate Fairs; women love playing dressup... and showing loads of cleavage.
Take a class in art history.
I was at a free concert downtown last month and there was NO babe-watching to speak of. Then, THE hottest dame in town got dragged over by her friend to dance with me. At the Pirate Fair, I was hit up by a HB pirate we-nch for a dance, because her boyfriend was being a chode. Just put yourself out there and opportunities will find you.
 

Tomthebomb

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The two ways I meet most women:

1. Through friends
2. At work (especiallly when you work in a hospital)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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