"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Best Places to Meet Women?

dmvmang

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I was wondering if you guys have any suggestions on places to meet women? I do work in the fitness field but my gym is more a family enviornment. I posted to something about another women, and it just didn't workout. I just lost interest, and she is not for me.

I do like to do my work at starbucks to clear my mind. When I sat down last month, I was suprised how many pretty women came in there. I will be 30 sunday man and time is ticking lol. If you have any other suggestions I would appreciate it. So far I have the gym, starbucks or maybe salsa dancing. I'm a homebody, but I need to get out a bit more. Thx
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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CrispyG

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That's it? Man you can meet women everywhere. The supermarket. The street. A concert. A bar. A comedy club. The taco place. Personally I make an effort to meet new guys too, because the amount of new women I've met through them is crazy, and so much more useful socially than going out and cold approaching, for me at least. A lot of guys spend their time just randomly approaching or trying to meet women, but there is so much value in just investing in a tighter, more interesting social circle, maybe with guys who are on edgier walks of life if you're a more reserved guy, as an example.
 

bluenorther

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Find more dance venues... salsa is a good start but there are many other styles, and prolly lots of locations you don't ordinarily think of.
Take horseback riding lessons. I work at the riding stables shoeing horses and the only men I see are other horseshoers, and the meskin "help". You'll meet some awesome horses, if nothing else, plus it's a he11uva physical challenge besides.
Get involved with Ren Fairs/Pirate Fairs; women love playing dressup... and showing loads of cleavage.
Take a class in art history.
I was at a free concert downtown last month and there was NO babe-watching to speak of. Then, THE hottest dame in town got dragged over by her friend to dance with me. At the Pirate Fair, I was hit up by a HB pirate we-nch for a dance, because her boyfriend was being a chode. Just put yourself out there and opportunities will find you.
 

bluenorther

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Find more dance venues... salsa is a good start but there are many other styles, and prolly lots of locations you don't ordinarily think of.
Take horseback riding lessons. I work at the riding stables shoeing horses and the only men I see are other horseshoers, and the meskin "help". You'll meet some awesome horses, if nothing else, plus it's a he11uva physical challenge besides.
Get involved with Ren Fairs/Pirate Fairs; women love playing dressup... and showing loads of cleavage.
Take a class in art history.
I was at a free concert downtown last month and there was NO babe-watching to speak of. Then, THE hottest dame in town got dragged over by her friend to dance with me. At the Pirate Fair, I was hit up by a HB pirate we-nch for a dance, because her boyfriend was being a chode. Just put yourself out there and opportunities will find you.
 

Tomthebomb

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The two ways I meet most women:

1. Through friends
2. At work (especiallly when you work in a hospital)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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