"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Best places to meet potentially relationship worthy girls?

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Mantis Toboggan

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Potentially relationship-worthy?

Haha. Anywhere.

Sure, I could say church or the library or volunteer groups.....but you can find s1uts there just as easily as a LTR girl.

And on the opposite end of the spectrum, you can tell yourself that LTR girls can't be found at parties or bars, but that's not true either.

You have to go through the same process as the rest of us. You have to date girls you're interested in....and through that process, you'll sort out who's a keeper and who isn't.

It's the definition of "judging a book by its cover" to think you can pre-select women by where you find them.
 

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I've been so surprised at the garbage i've hooked up with that looked perfect on paper. Upper level professions that require advanced education, quiet, nothing seemed out of wack. But it turned out on a 1 to 10 scale they were maybe a 2 in terms of relationship worthy.

You just never now man. Dont even bother looking for the right place or type or whatever.
 

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Dance class. There's an old saying "couples that dance together stay together"

Here are the reasons why
1. It's a known fact that dance classes are love factories: Dance Studios are known for producing couples/marriages. The reason is simple in these places kino is king. You are constantly doing kino on women through dancing. You are constantly touching them thus creating attraction/bonding with them. This not only works for them but it also works for you as you get feelings of bonding with them as well.

2. Girls in dance classes are more feminine: In dance classes girls learn to be led by men as this is what most formal dancing is. Subconsciously this teaches them to respect men as their leaders. It's a feminine trait that they learn in dance classes and if they already had this trait then it is reinforced.

Comparing girls I have met at dance classes and girls at the club is like comparing apples and oranges. Girls at dance classes are so much more feminine and easy going. Their feminine side is reinforced through the dancing.

I would encourage anybody out there to just go to google and search for their local dance studios and start taking classes. I recommend salsa classes. A guy that can dance salsa well never has a shortage of beautiful women and friends. You can move to any city in the world and find salsa clubs to dance at. Not only that but if you go to a regular club where 99% of the guys can't dance and all they know how to do is grind then you will seriously stand out with just a few of the basic moves you learned.

I can't forget to mention the fact that you gotta be super stupid to not end up banging girls at your dance class. It's the reason why so many guys rave about dance classes (and take dance classes). It's difficult not to end up getting involved with the women there. If you are not looking for a girlfriend but just want to bang some girls then dance classes is also a place for you. But don't go to dance classes trying to pick up girls go there to learn how to dance. All the kino you do there on the girls through dancing will do all the work for you.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I second what f283000 said. I dance a lot of Salsa and have met many women this way.
 

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Best place to meet relationship worthy girls...in one's imagination.

Or you can date some UG0-5 who will treat you right and be in low in drama.
 

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st_99 said:
I've been so surprised at the garbage i've hooked up with that looked perfect on paper. Upper level professions that require advanced education, quiet, nothing seemed out of wack. But it turned out on a 1 to 10 scale they were maybe a 2 in terms of relationship worthy.

You just never now man. Dont even bother looking for the right place or type or whatever.
Have to agree with st99 on this one.
 

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the horse track is the most unkonwn/untapped resource of high quality womein in the country if not the world.


I've always wanted to learn how to tango. trying to talk the wife into doing classes. she cant dance to save her life though.
 

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Where you hobbies or interests take place. I had many an opportunity to hook up with chicks when hiking or doing outdoors stuff. These ones are down to earth, love adventure and have very fit lower bodies.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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you'll meet relationship worthy women anywhere, and you'll meet slvts anywhere. You just have to keep picking.
 

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st_99 said:
I've been so surprised at the garbage i've hooked up with that looked perfect on paper. Upper level professions that require advanced education, quiet, nothing seemed out of wack. But it turned out on a 1 to 10 scale they were maybe a 2 in terms of relationship worthy.

You just never now man. Dont even bother looking for the right place or type or whatever.
Can you elaborate on what they were like?

Cos I've been looking at upper level professional women with advanced education too but they all seem to have some BS issues attached to them.

I dont know if it's to do with it being the US where men and women are equal in regards to pay but in europe it's unequal, women still earn a lot less than men (they use this as an excuse to get men to pay) but there does seem to be a ceiling for them in how far up the company they can rise without being an iron maiden ice queen.

I generally go for successful educated women who can provide for themselves in their own right or at least prove to me that they have till a point before i take on the role as provider and she looks after the kids etc.

However the issue seems to be that if they're in banking or lawyers or whatever.. generally speaking I find the women in investment banking in the front office high calibre roles with biggest bonuses generally are very attractive (the roles need you to be super self confident) and also able to cope being around guys all the time given it's a male dominated profession (usually they have 2 brothers), and in order to get into these roles they need to be well educated.

Now here's the issue, despite all this most of them still have some sort of baggage or issues carried on from their youth. They're independent fair enough, earn lots BUT they still spend everything they get, save nothing..and have the audactiy to say 'well i can afford to pay for dinner on a date i dont need a guy to pay for me but i believe the man should still be a gentleman and pay for me' the kicker is that these women blow all their cash on clothes and shoes, partying, holidays running themselves into debt yet have the audacity to say the above.

They also sleep around a lot, it's like in order to mix it with the boys you need to behave like the boys, so if you have issues with her sexual past these aren't the women for you even if on paper they seem ideal.

Most can't cook, but they look good.

They're also attention wh0res like most attractive women, don't seem to understand the concept between what's appropriate and what's not. Believing that it's acceptable to have lots of male friends as if it's no thing.

I think it's just spoilt self indulgent behavior.

What were you finding that were making them only a 2 on a relationship scale?
 

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backbreaker said:
the horse track is the most unkonwn/untapped resource of high quality womein in the country if not the world.


I've always wanted to learn how to tango. trying to talk the wife into doing classes. she cant dance to save her life though.
That's funny, i lost my ex to another guy cos SHE wanted to learn to salsa and i refused to go. All that kino from the suave latin american guy caused a rift between us. I guess I didn't make myself enough of a prize that she'd risk losing me over dancing.
 

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That's funny, i lost my ex to another guy cos SHE wanted to learn to salsa and i refused to go. All that kino from the suave latin american guy caused a rift between us. I guess I didn't make myself enough of a prize that she'd risk losing me over dancing.
You'd be surprised at how many hot girls I see with ugly looking guys in the salsa scene. It just goes to show the power of kino. These guys know how to dance, they are confident, they kino women a lot through dancing and at the end their looks don't matter they still end up with hot girlfriends. The kino overpowers the women.

This is why PUAS recommend salsa. If you're a decent looking guy and can dance salsa you can go home with a new girl every weekend.

Can't forget to mention that girls in the salsa scene are much hotter, in better shape and have better personalities than your average stuck up club girl.
 

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PapiChulo said:
Where you hobbies or interests take place.
^This, more than anything^

I would say you're probably a lot more likely to have a successful relationship this way. Social circle extentions are the same, your friends share your hobbies / interest so if they are friends of friends it's kind of the same idea.


I like the salsa idea, just not my style, personally.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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