Dhoulmagus
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I'm sick of all the party sloots and they are poison. I feel like I'm in a catch 22 situation just by being near them.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Best places to meet girls in college besides parties
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
danthemann
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it depends. if you are confident enough you can just talk to girls around campus in between classes. i know what its like though when you dont really know them it can be awkward, just try to find girls that are sitting by themselves or are just looking to kill time and strike up a conversation with them. otherwise, you should try and get into study groups or join some clubs or get into greek life. like the guy above me was saying, college is really about status and what you are apart of and who you know. its a lot easier to meet these girls and develop some rapport with them if you see them everywhere or if they know they people you do. however if you have some good confidence and can exude a cool non-creepy personality im sure you can pull off cold approaches on campus. anything can work here too, a lot of it is just situational and a simple 'hey' can open the door.
I'm near the end of my 2nd year in a business uni(doing my Bachelors in two years), so maybe I'll be able to shed some light on this.
I think it's mostly social circle game if you disregard all kinds of events. Knowing people will get you more social interaction. Leaving a good impression will get you positive interaction.
Events:
Almost all college events(up here at least) are great places to meet girls. Many of them include alcohol, so it makes things even easier. Go to the ones you think might be fun, enjoy yourself, be open and flirt remorselessly with everyone.
Cafeteria:
Open and sit next to someone. Opening pairs is not hard in places like library cafés.
Classes:
A bit harder. Are you there to study or to **** around? I usually use the classes for studying. The exception here might be certain language courses that require oral practice. That is a great chance to flirt and practice your language skills at the same time. Eye contact game and kino, however, can easily(and successfully) be used if there is enough attraction in place already. Kino can go horribly wrong too, so be careful about it.
As for other places, you can meet chicks literally everywhere. Just open someone who's waiting for her class to begin. After that, always smile and say "Hi" to her when you see her. Boom, social circle expanded.
It might be a bit different overseas though. Can't say since I've never been to the States.
I think it's mostly social circle game if you disregard all kinds of events. Knowing people will get you more social interaction. Leaving a good impression will get you positive interaction.
Events:
Almost all college events(up here at least) are great places to meet girls. Many of them include alcohol, so it makes things even easier. Go to the ones you think might be fun, enjoy yourself, be open and flirt remorselessly with everyone.
Cafeteria:
Open and sit next to someone. Opening pairs is not hard in places like library cafés.
Classes:
A bit harder. Are you there to study or to **** around? I usually use the classes for studying. The exception here might be certain language courses that require oral practice. That is a great chance to flirt and practice your language skills at the same time. Eye contact game and kino, however, can easily(and successfully) be used if there is enough attraction in place already. Kino can go horribly wrong too, so be careful about it.
As for other places, you can meet chicks literally everywhere. Just open someone who's waiting for her class to begin. After that, always smile and say "Hi" to her when you see her. Boom, social circle expanded.
It might be a bit different overseas though. Can't say since I've never been to the States.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.