Dhoulmagus
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I'm sick of all the party sloots and they are poison. I feel like I'm in a catch 22 situation just by being near them.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Best places to meet girls in college besides parties
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
danthemann
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it depends. if you are confident enough you can just talk to girls around campus in between classes. i know what its like though when you dont really know them it can be awkward, just try to find girls that are sitting by themselves or are just looking to kill time and strike up a conversation with them. otherwise, you should try and get into study groups or join some clubs or get into greek life. like the guy above me was saying, college is really about status and what you are apart of and who you know. its a lot easier to meet these girls and develop some rapport with them if you see them everywhere or if they know they people you do. however if you have some good confidence and can exude a cool non-creepy personality im sure you can pull off cold approaches on campus. anything can work here too, a lot of it is just situational and a simple 'hey' can open the door.
I'm near the end of my 2nd year in a business uni(doing my Bachelors in two years), so maybe I'll be able to shed some light on this.
I think it's mostly social circle game if you disregard all kinds of events. Knowing people will get you more social interaction. Leaving a good impression will get you positive interaction.
Events:
Almost all college events(up here at least) are great places to meet girls. Many of them include alcohol, so it makes things even easier. Go to the ones you think might be fun, enjoy yourself, be open and flirt remorselessly with everyone.
Cafeteria:
Open and sit next to someone. Opening pairs is not hard in places like library cafés.
Classes:
A bit harder. Are you there to study or to **** around? I usually use the classes for studying. The exception here might be certain language courses that require oral practice. That is a great chance to flirt and practice your language skills at the same time. Eye contact game and kino, however, can easily(and successfully) be used if there is enough attraction in place already. Kino can go horribly wrong too, so be careful about it.
As for other places, you can meet chicks literally everywhere. Just open someone who's waiting for her class to begin. After that, always smile and say "Hi" to her when you see her. Boom, social circle expanded.
It might be a bit different overseas though. Can't say since I've never been to the States.
I think it's mostly social circle game if you disregard all kinds of events. Knowing people will get you more social interaction. Leaving a good impression will get you positive interaction.
Events:
Almost all college events(up here at least) are great places to meet girls. Many of them include alcohol, so it makes things even easier. Go to the ones you think might be fun, enjoy yourself, be open and flirt remorselessly with everyone.
Cafeteria:
Open and sit next to someone. Opening pairs is not hard in places like library cafés.
Classes:
A bit harder. Are you there to study or to **** around? I usually use the classes for studying. The exception here might be certain language courses that require oral practice. That is a great chance to flirt and practice your language skills at the same time. Eye contact game and kino, however, can easily(and successfully) be used if there is enough attraction in place already. Kino can go horribly wrong too, so be careful about it.
As for other places, you can meet chicks literally everywhere. Just open someone who's waiting for her class to begin. After that, always smile and say "Hi" to her when you see her. Boom, social circle expanded.
It might be a bit different overseas though. Can't say since I've never been to the States.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.