"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Best places to go to San Francisco if you were to go a 2nd time?

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If I were to go to San Francisco for the 2nd time, what are some cool places to check out?

Ive been to the Bridge, the pier where they have all the seals and walruses, rode the ferrie and went on a walking tour.

What are some cool places to check out if I were to go a 2nd time?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Looking at the little druggie chicks throw up in the Haight-Asbury. Going to Castro Street on a Saturday morning with the bears on the prowl in the bars. Looking at folks defecating on the street wherever. Just driving around and have folks pop the bird at you for going slow because you don't know your way around.

Driving down the famous steep & twisty street (don't do I like did and hit the curb at the end, thinking there was another twist). Visiting Alcatraz Prison. Visiting Chinatown. Silicon Valley & Pacific Coast Highway on the south side.
 

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In SF itself: North Beach. The Marina. Valencia Street between 16th & 24th. Chase Center. The Presidio. Tunnel Tops. Ft. Mason. South Park. Dogpatch. Inner Sunset. SalesForce Tower Garden. Golden Gate Park. 16th Ave painted stairs. SOMA (with some caution). Chinatown. 24th Street (with some caution). Sunset Beaches. Richmond Beaches. China Beach. Sutro Baths. Twin Peaks. Lombard St. Exploratorium. Palace of Fine Arts. Palace of the Legion of Honor. Lands End, Upper Haight. Hayes Street. Noe Valley. Upper Fillmore. Upper Polk. Upper Hyde. Coit Tower. Nob Hill.
 

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Do yourself a favor go to the Marin Headlands too Tiburon, Sausalito, Stinson Beach. Rent a zip car and get up early and be in Sausalito for breakfast. Stinson for lunch, and Tiburon for coffee.
 

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Never been to SF but they have their own Six Flags if Im not mistaken. I would check that out.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Do yourself a favor go to the Marin Headlands too Tiburon, Sausalito, Stinson Beach. Rent a zip car and get up early and be in Sausalito for breakfast. Stinson for lunch, and Tiburon for coffee.
You can also drive up to the top of Mt. Tamalpais and check out the Muir Woods. The Headlands are overrated and ugly af, Tiburon has better views.
 
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