"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Best place to take out girl for the "one month"?

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Hey dudes, long time lurker... first time poster ;). And RAFC :p. Anyways I have been "tied down" to this girl for nearly a month. It's the first time ever really, that I have felt like being in a bf/gf situation with someone... Anyway our "one month" is coming up, and i'm just after some ideal places to take the woman! No corny lookouts or ****, I was thinking some slick restaurant or something, but figured maybe you guys have some better ideas!

cheers
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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I hate to break it to 'ya but anything prior to a six month anniversary doesn't mean a thing when it comes to relationships. Most relationships fail before the six month mark for various reasons.

Also, you will be able to better determine if this woman is worth making a long term go at it. Try not to buy her affection, let her like you for things other than what you can give her.
 

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Oh I'm not trying to buy her out, and I completely understand what you're saying ;). One month IS insignificant, however it is a small progression and; she is keen to do something for it, and I don't plan on arguing the point. I still think that its worth taking her out on a *small* night out for.
 

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Two Words, comedy club...
 

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Sorry to break it to you, but you're still an AFC, not a RAFC. This is a dumb post. 1 month "anniversary" (nice oxymoron)? What are you thinking? Asking where to go after you've known some chick for a month?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hehe maybe I am. And so are you ;). Never said "anniversary" mate. Maybe I phrased the question wrong, I was really just after a place to take her other than the flicks if you get what I mean... though guess I coulda found some ideas in other posts.

Cheers bud ;)
 

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end of this month i will have been exclusive with my gf for 6 months (record for me!). I haven't taken her out for a "one month" a "two month" or even a "three month". Don't do it, cuz your setting your self up to have to do this every month or it will be "oh, our third month isn't important to you" or some shiat like that. DON'T DO IT.
 
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