“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Best pickup spots in Paris?

Abcd

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I posted this in the main forum but realized it's probably better here.

I am in Paris for just a few days - tonight Friday is my only night alone. Where is an American guy (27) most likely to pick up a girl in Paris? I've had a couple french gfs before but they spoke English and we met in other countries. I have no idea where to go about picking up a French girl on their own territory. It doesn't seem like clubs are a good idea (but maybe so, which one?)

it seems like people mainly hang out at brasseries at night, but they are with their friends and speaking french. I don't speak French and I feel a little weird as a single American butting in on a convo in French.

Girls are gorgeous here, just don't know how/where to pick up a girl as an American alone in town!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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jgoodz

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I was in Paris just the other month and a buddy and I did very well for the four days we were there. I would suggest hitting up the bars/clubs. A few places I can recommend is VIP Club, La Baron, and check out the Hotel bars, those are always great to find tourists like yourself.
You Don't need to speak french, a lot of girl speak english there and I'm sure you'll do just fine. Just be fun and outgoing. G'luck! :up:
 

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Dear Abcd,
Finding Ladies when overseas...look a familiar problem,except in the Far East....Your chances are not very good with the natives,but excellent with fellow travellors....Look do yourself a favour:As you probably know Masons,Bowls players and other similar interest groups can go anywhere and find pals...well there is a similar group for Don Juans,it's called Dancing,not tea bagging,but tripping the light fantastic toe....for preference try Argentine Tango...It ALWAYS has an imbalance of Women and INVARIABLY they are intelligent,usually speak English,mostly well educated....Just returned from Backpacking round Turkey and Cyprus....Even in Moslem countries there is Tango,In Istanbul,there were Two women for every man,every night of the week,at a choice of pleasant venues,in Cyprus the odds were even more favourable.
So looking a Paris on the net,there are between four and ten Dances going on every night...If you don't believe me,go along to one of them and resolve to learn.
 
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