"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Best pickup/direct approach/seduction scenes in movies, post yours here

Guitar_Whizz

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I thought I'd start a thread on some of the best pickup/approach/seduction scenes from movies, TV shows etc. What are yours, and are there any that have particularly motivated and inspired you? Please post them here and if you like, explain why they inspired you and what can be learned from the scene.

When it comes to approaching, seducing and interacting with women, I prefer the direct approach so most of my favourite scenes are direct ones. However, feel free to post direct or indirect scenes here.

I'll post a few, but to start with, one of my favourite ever direct approach/seduction scenes is from the movie 'The Witches Of Eastwick' where Jack Nicholson's character seduces Cher's character. He's very direct, remains calm in the face of her harsh criticism/insults (i.e '**** tests') and 5 minutes or so later ends up seducing her....

 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Cheeky_James

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I like this one , it’s quite realistic

And the simplicity of this one.. “it’s all in the eyes”

It’s all in the first IOIs exchanged,
eye contact and reading the womans face and micro expressions is probably the most important key skill of pickup.

The most simple pickup on film-From the movie Spread with Ashton Kutcher

 
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