There has been a lot of discussion about if and why a person should emulate their favorite movie stars personalities to become successful with women. Do you think this actually works? I personally don't really have an opinion yet. I haven't tried emulating anyone, but the idea is interesting. Who would you agree are the best people to emulate?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Best person to emulate?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Emulate Arnold Schwarzenegger, including the accent. Even if your accent sounds totally fake (ie it's obvious you're an American trying to fake an Austrian accent), the chicks will be all over you! I GUARANTEE IT!!!
Originally posted by Finch
There has been a lot of discussion about if and why a person should emulate their favorite movie stars personalities to become successful with women. Do you think this actually works? I personally don't really have an opinion yet. I haven't tried emulating anyone, but the idea is interesting. Who would you agree are the best people to emulate?
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Thats an easy one. Most people will over-analyze this question and say, you shouldn't emulate a fictional character. Realistically though, these characters are archetypical and represent some positive characteristics. That said, you can stand to gain from emulating them. Me personally, my favorite character is James Bond. I model myself after him(in some aspects) because i admire his confidence, his determination, and most of all, his lack of fear. Which if you think about it, are the keys to success in all aspects of life including dealing with women.
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I know a couple of guys who learned how to get good with women by listening to Too $hort.
Re: Re: Best person to emulate?
You should probably stop talking.Originally posted by wiggadude
Emulate Arnold Schwarzenegger, including the accent. Even if your accent sounds totally fake (ie it's obvious you're an American trying to fake an Austrian accent), the chicks will be all over you! I GUARANTEE IT!!!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Emulate Edward Norton,
In Fight Club
Where he shoots himself in the face.
How f-ckin far up your own ass do you have to be to try to emulate yourself after celeb to get girls????!!!!
****ING read the bible and apply it to YOUR OWN GOD D@MN SELF.
BE A F-CKIN MAN!!!
COME ON!
You know better~!
Andromax
In Fight Club
Where he shoots himself in the face.
How f-ckin far up your own ass do you have to be to try to emulate yourself after celeb to get girls????!!!!
****ING read the bible and apply it to YOUR OWN GOD D@MN SELF.
BE A F-CKIN MAN!!!
COME ON!
You know better~!
Andromax