"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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best of luck guys

Scars

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scars just don't let your baby momma steal your joy. I assure you she's going to try at some point. don't let her. you made some mistakes but you aren't a bad due, and don't let her lead you down that path. women can very easily.
Thanks man. I'm sorry to hear you're leaving, and hope all the best for you.

I'll be fine. I'm one tough son of a gun, and to be honest you and the other mature guys here are the only ones I really listen to. (Sorry to all the younger guys, it's just the truth.) I still get smashed on for posting in the mature forum, I can't help it sometimes. Rollo might just ban me until I'm 25 one day. Lol.

But anyway, sucks to see you leave, but you do what you gotta do. You'll be missed brotha.

-Scars
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Boilermaker

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I am glad he left. If I have anything to do with, I am really happy. I finally scared the troll away.

He was trolling here 24/7 with minimal insight anyway. All he wanted to say was menial details from his life. Who says he's mature? Mouth diarrhea is the correct diagnosis. Cussing at others' girlfriends, vulnerable, can't take the slightest criticism, married with an older woman, has a kid at 29, running an online business which is being labeled as a scam, that's success? That's a big fvcking jump?

A Don Juan who constantly creates threads on "leaving" but never actually leaving...He's a self-admitted drama queen who harps on the same arabesque songs over and over again. Typical "addict" behavior. It's either binging on SoSuave with 10,000 word threads, or by cutting it out completely only to come back a few days later.

Expect him very soon. Don't baby his "attention bars" with your crocodile tears, because he'll be back. He's done it before. I don't know how many times. These days it's every 2-3 months. He is the eternal troll of SoSuave.
 

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Good luck in the future, really enjoyed reading your post.
 

st_99

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I still don't get how you get an edge in horse racing..
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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