"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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best of luck guys

Scars

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scars just don't let your baby momma steal your joy. I assure you she's going to try at some point. don't let her. you made some mistakes but you aren't a bad due, and don't let her lead you down that path. women can very easily.
Thanks man. I'm sorry to hear you're leaving, and hope all the best for you.

I'll be fine. I'm one tough son of a gun, and to be honest you and the other mature guys here are the only ones I really listen to. (Sorry to all the younger guys, it's just the truth.) I still get smashed on for posting in the mature forum, I can't help it sometimes. Rollo might just ban me until I'm 25 one day. Lol.

But anyway, sucks to see you leave, but you do what you gotta do. You'll be missed brotha.

-Scars
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Boilermaker

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I am glad he left. If I have anything to do with, I am really happy. I finally scared the troll away.

He was trolling here 24/7 with minimal insight anyway. All he wanted to say was menial details from his life. Who says he's mature? Mouth diarrhea is the correct diagnosis. Cussing at others' girlfriends, vulnerable, can't take the slightest criticism, married with an older woman, has a kid at 29, running an online business which is being labeled as a scam, that's success? That's a big fvcking jump?

A Don Juan who constantly creates threads on "leaving" but never actually leaving...He's a self-admitted drama queen who harps on the same arabesque songs over and over again. Typical "addict" behavior. It's either binging on SoSuave with 10,000 word threads, or by cutting it out completely only to come back a few days later.

Expect him very soon. Don't baby his "attention bars" with your crocodile tears, because he'll be back. He's done it before. I don't know how many times. These days it's every 2-3 months. He is the eternal troll of SoSuave.
 

MM92

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Good luck in the future, really enjoyed reading your post.
 

st_99

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I still don't get how you get an edge in horse racing..
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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