"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Best of luck Gentlemen.

Sapiens

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Gents,

Wish you the best; but I haven't the time or inclination to wade through all the garbage threads.

To those of you whom work the field, I commend you. You will become great, remember all pros practice, practice, practice.

It is my hope that what little I contributed makes a positive impact in your life.

Regards,

-Sapiens
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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BrotherAP

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But Sapiens, you're one of my favorites!

I promise not to post crap, just don't leave!

At very least, keep updating your thread starring GrassHopper. I'm hooked!


BrotherAP :D

We need you here Sapiens!
 

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Respect! Good luck.
 

Swoop

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Thanks Sapiens for all your help. See you around.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Prio

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Originally posted by BrotherAP
But Sapiens, you're one of my favorites!

I promise not to post crap, just don't leave!

At very least, keep updating your thread starring GrassHopper. I'm hooked!


BrotherAP :D

We need you here Sapiens!

Word!!
 

Doctormad

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Damn! I was looking forward to hearing more about the progress of your new protege.

But on the other hand, I completely understand your position. It seems that this board has been infested by trolls, haters, and KJ's
 
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