Hi All
Doc Love used to say - Friday and Saturday nights were reserved. Basically she should be wondering what you were doing on those nights. And some experienced DJs like Harry Wilmington take the same line with slightly different rationale - that a girl will think you're trying to push a relationship as those are 'couple' nights.
So what has been people's experience?
Its a simple question but I'm wondering if it will be different for age groups and OLD vs offline.
My personal experience with the OLD chicks is it seems more about impatience. Date should be 3 (perfect) - 5 (OK) days away. Since I try not to txt before the date - if it tails out too long they seem to flake - probably because of all the attention they get online. So I'm saying if some OLD chick agrees to a date on Wednesday - then a Saturday night date is fine.
I'm interested because week nights are a bit hard for me - work long hours. And sure I could try making the date during the day on Sat or Sun but I always think its easier to escalate at night - you won't be the only one doing it. Whereas at Starbucks on Saturday afternoon the chick might feel creeped out by too much Kino.
Doc Love used to say - Friday and Saturday nights were reserved. Basically she should be wondering what you were doing on those nights. And some experienced DJs like Harry Wilmington take the same line with slightly different rationale - that a girl will think you're trying to push a relationship as those are 'couple' nights.
So what has been people's experience?
Its a simple question but I'm wondering if it will be different for age groups and OLD vs offline.
My personal experience with the OLD chicks is it seems more about impatience. Date should be 3 (perfect) - 5 (OK) days away. Since I try not to txt before the date - if it tails out too long they seem to flake - probably because of all the attention they get online. So I'm saying if some OLD chick agrees to a date on Wednesday - then a Saturday night date is fine.
I'm interested because week nights are a bit hard for me - work long hours. And sure I could try making the date during the day on Sat or Sun but I always think its easier to escalate at night - you won't be the only one doing it. Whereas at Starbucks on Saturday afternoon the chick might feel creeped out by too much Kino.