“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Aurora Demon

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1. The most useful in a real fight, MMA and BJJ and Muay Thai and Kickbkxing and Boxing and Roman Greco Wrestling.

2. Good Exercise.

3. Looks the coolest.
I am an actor and am hoping to do fight choreography.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

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I will be starting Wing Chun Kung Fu very soon.

And Isshin-Ryu Karate.
 

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Most fights start standing and can be ended in seconds with good boxing and kicking. Street fights are almost never fair man on man duels. Instead one side is usually outnumbered. Unless you are Muhammed Ali and can down several men in quick fashion then it is best to run. If the fight does end up on the ground wrestling skills become paramount and BJJ is supreme here. It is important to remember the enemy still has friends that can kick you in the head, so the fight going to the ground can easily be deadly despite your wrestling skills.
 

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Most fights start standing and can be ended in seconds with good boxing and kicking. Street fights are almost never fair man on man duels. Instead one side is usually outnumbered. Unless you are Muhammed Ali and can down several men in quick fashion then it is best to run. If the fight does end up on the ground wrestling skills become paramount and BJJ is supreme here. It is important to remember the enemy still has friends that can kick you in the head, so the fight going to the ground can easily be deadly despite your wrestling skills.
I really don't think ground game would be too practical in most real situations. Most fights are likely going to be on pavement or other hard and abrasive surfaces. You will get scrapped up really bad, I mean possible skin grafts if it's bad enough. But the worst part about is the fact that you are prolonging the fight and exposing yourself to a lot of risk, such getting kicked in the head by his friends as you said, or shot, or getting arrested.

If you have to fight you want to end it as quickly as possible and gtfo. For this reason I believe basic boxing/kickboxing is the best martial art for a street fight. Ideally you'd clock someone hard enough with 1 blow to knock them out or stun them, or resort to biting/eye poking if need be, then get out of there before anyone knows what just happened.

I think people are kidding themselves if they fantasize about getting into a real fight and grappling some guy to the ground then pinning him into submission, while in a totally controlled environment. That's ego. There are a lot of situations where that won't be practical or even possible. And I say this as someone who did that once, but only because I didn't want the fight to escalate further.
 
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A slick guillotine choke is especially dangerous to people who haven't trained, because they don't understand that the arteries to the brain are on the sides of the neck. The windpipe is in the front, and if you let them breathe they don't realize they're being choked. They can go out in 5-7 seconds easily. You gotta let go so they don't die, and you got about one minute before they wake up. But it takes all the desire to fight out of them when theybdo wake up. They just want to know what happened.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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1. The most useful in a real fight, MMA and BJJ and Muay Thai and Kickbkxing and Boxing and Roman Greco Wrestling.
No one "style" or "system" is applicable here... Go read up on practical self-defense. Everything else is first-rate for getting the endorphins flowing
 

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No one "style" or "system" is applicable here... Go read up on practical self-defense. Everything else is first-rate for getting the endorphins flowing
Hi, I agree that not one style or system is the best or most useful. From own experience it is best to experience some kind of fight. If you go to a sparring session in Thai box or any other box, you will have a rough estimate of how it feels to get punched in the face. And believe me, you will get punched in the face.
Here lies the important part, the conditioning to be used to that feeling and how to respond under pressure of that situation. Also the brain works differently in high stress environments like fist fight is.
S most is not about endorphins but to get a feel for the fight.
 

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While there is no "BEST" it all comes down to what you are willing to do to not only survive, but to disable, up to and including K1LL your attacker. Like some have mentioned above, there could be more than one. Just like learning doesn't end in the classroom and the tests you take can never contain the entirety of questions or problems you will face.

The answer is not likely to be "lateral step/outside chest block, reverse punch to ribs step on knee, face punch follow through." It may be "pick up a rock and smash his skull in." It may be "pull out your knife and say 'come on guys, it ain't worth ya'll getting cut up.'"

All the ugliness aside, there are too many martial arts I can name that will not teach you certain things. It's mostly sport related. A lot of the drills can be used practically, but what then? In my honest opinion, combatives are what you want to learn to fight, maim or destroy. A martial arts system is what you would do mostly for fitness, competition and self defense. Let's not start the "whataboutisms" or "my style beats ___ style." Is the Karateka going to be saying that if he gets a power jab from a faux southpaw boxer? Is the boxer going to accuse you of cheating if you grab a beer bottle or stool?

My answer is get with a school or instructor who understands the ugliness and unpredictability (as well as the stupidity in not trying to find another way other than fight) of actually fighting. I've met a boxer, a wrestler and a Karateka who were able to teach to this capacity and made it clear when a person's size can and does matter and what principles or techniques are less effective against whom. Most traditional martial arts however think mechanically or technically and not tactically.

This is where you have methods of training/learning like LINE Combat System, William Ewart Fairbairn, Rex Applegate (who used a few of Jim Bowe's knife fighting principles), S.C.A.R.S (most of it is training the mental response to a threat or to pain/injuries. For instance, if your finger is broken, you keep fighting as if it's your last shot at life and worry about it later. If you break their finger, they may react in an untrained manner and you can keep wailing on them.), SPEAR system is similar in this regard and more modern, in fact, sever Krav Maga instructors have at least heard of SPEAR. Lastly, service related martial arts systems include MCMAP and USACS. They're a bit watered down, but designed to be train the untrained as fast as possible. I've seen a MCMAP black belt get leveled by a tan belt (lowest grade) that was a boxer of 2 years. Go figure.

Going off of statistics, most people NEVER train in any martial art. Including boxing or wrestling. So even if you randomly pick one and learn how the human body moves, how to get someone to react and to control your reactions at the same time, and to deliver damage with the least amount of effort on your part you're ahead of the curve. Your likelihood of running into Don Frye, GSP, Bas Ruten, Mayweather, Tyson or Eddie Hall are pretty slim. And even if you ran into these guys, you're more likely to get an affable back slapping hug or handshake. Look at most police bodycam footage or footage someone captured of a guy getting jumped. You can easily tell if one person is trained or not.

Pick your poison and train! It lasts a lifetime even if you don't stick with it for life.
 

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While there is no "BEST" it all comes down to what you are willing to do to not only survive, but to disable, up to and including K1LL your attacker. Like some have mentioned above, there could be more than one. Just like learning doesn't end in the classroom and the tests you take can never contain the entirety of questions or problems you will face.

The answer is not likely to be "lateral step/outside chest block, reverse punch to ribs step on knee, face punch follow through." It may be "pick up a rock and smash his skull in." It may be "pull out your knife and say 'come on guys, it ain't worth ya'll getting cut up.'"

All the ugliness aside, there are too many martial arts I can name that will not teach you certain things. It's mostly sport related. A lot of the drills can be used practically, but what then? In my honest opinion, combatives are what you want to learn to fight, maim or destroy. A martial arts system is what you would do mostly for fitness, competition and self defense. Let's not start the "whataboutisms" or "my style beats ___ style." Is the Karateka going to be saying that if he gets a power jab from a faux southpaw boxer? Is the boxer going to accuse you of cheating if you grab a beer bottle or stool?

My answer is get with a school or instructor who understands the ugliness and unpredictability (as well as the stupidity in not trying to find another way other than fight) of actually fighting. I've met a boxer, a wrestler and a Karateka who were able to teach to this capacity and made it clear when a person's size can and does matter and what principles or techniques are less effective against whom. Most traditional martial arts however think mechanically or technically and not tactically.

This is where you have methods of training/learning like LINE Combat System, William Ewart Fairbairn, Rex Applegate (who used a few of Jim Bowe's knife fighting principles), S.C.A.R.S (most of it is training the mental response to a threat or to pain/injuries. For instance, if your finger is broken, you keep fighting as if it's your last shot at life and worry about it later. If you break their finger, they may react in an untrained manner and you can keep wailing on them.), SPEAR system is similar in this regard and more modern, in fact, sever Krav Maga instructors have at least heard of SPEAR. Lastly, service related martial arts systems include MCMAP and USACS. They're a bit watered down, but designed to be train the untrained as fast as possible. I've seen a MCMAP black belt get leveled by a tan belt (lowest grade) that was a boxer of 2 years. Go figure.

Going off of statistics, most people NEVER train in any martial art. Including boxing or wrestling. So even if you randomly pick one and learn how the human body moves, how to get someone to react and to control your reactions at the same time, and to deliver damage with the least amount of effort on your part you're ahead of the curve. Your likelihood of running into Don Frye, GSP, Bas Ruten, Mayweather, Tyson or Eddie Hall are pretty slim. And even if you ran into these guys, you're more likely to get an affable back slapping hug or handshake. Look at most police bodycam footage or footage someone captured of a guy getting jumped. You can easily tell if one person is trained or not.

Pick your poison and train! It lasts a lifetime even if you don't stick with it for life.
52 Blocks is really interesting, made popular as a black prison boxing style. I studied it a little. They obviously borrowed a lot from wing chun/Kung fu/kali, as it is short controlled movements and a lot of elbow blocks. The idea is to break the other guy's hand as he punches you by hitting it with an elbow strike. It was unfortunately more difficult to use in a sport, because of the padded gloves and gauze wraps. But it's a lot easier to hurt someone's bare fist if they are foolish enough to swing at you. And I think it beats all the other martial arts in a legal defense perspective. "That guy hurt his hand when he punched me," is the best you're ever going to do when the cops come.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

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52 Blocks is really interesting, made popular as a black prison boxing style. I studied it a little. They obviously borrowed a lot from wing chun/Kung fu/kali, as it is short controlled movements and a lot of elbow blocks. The idea is to break the other guy's hand as he punches you by hitting it with an elbow strike. It was unfortunately more difficult to use in a sport, because of the padded gloves and gauze wraps. But it's a lot easier to hurt someone's bare fist if they are foolish enough to swing at you. And I think it beats all the other martial arts in a legal defense perspective. "That guy hurt his hand when he punched me," is the best you're ever going to do when the cops come.
DANG IT! I was also going to mention "Jailhouse Rock." I do like it as well.
 

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For real fighting effectiveness, MMA, BJJ, Muay Thai, and boxing are solid; they cover striking, grappling, and takedowns. Wrestling (Greco-Roman or freestyle) is also huge for control and throws. For exercise, kickboxing, Muay Thai, and general martial arts classes like karate or taekwondo give a full-body workout and cardio. If you’re thinking about what looks cool for choreography, styles with flashy kicks or dynamic throws, like Wushu, Capoeira, or Taekwondo, tend to be visually striking on screen. Combining something practical with something visually impressive can give you both authenticity and flair in fight scenes.
 
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