"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Best Hobbies....???

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What are the Best Hobbies for meeting chicks?

yeah...i know..you're not suppose to be looking for chicks while you are practicing your hobby but...fvck that crap. I'm always on the lookout....and hangin with a bunch of drunk dudes who play softball on the weekend in SWELTERING heat doesn't sound like my gig.

I know the obvious....

-Dancing
-Join a Gym

What else...what are some of the better hobbies for meeting women?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Unbridled_Phoenix

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yeah yoga sounds like a good one. Let's expand our horizons boys
 

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Yoga...that's sounds good.

I've seen some of the Yoga chicks...HOT!

Of course, Dancing is a lot of fun...and chicks love it!

I'm thinking of taking a dance class.

Anyone ever try Dance Clubs?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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How about something you like????

You do hobbies because you like them. thus you invest time and energy into them. This means you actually like what your doing and are being passionate about it.
People are interesting when they can actually talk wideley about what they do and why. (Try doing that with yoga: OH yeaa i like this pose....??) I agree yoga is good, but not as a hobby.. and doing a hobby because of women is stupid, your just cutting off your own development as a humanbeeing.

Thus: Monstertruck driver.
 
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I like the great outdoors, camping, hiking, tabbing, rock climbing, canoeing, kayaking, swimming, archery and rifle range shooting.

These are my favourite activities and I go running every morning. The most important thing is that you develop hobbies that you enjoy for you, not to become more interesting to women.
 

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If you're picking up a hobby in order to meet women all you're doing is attempting to Identify with what you expect your idealized woman to appreciate. If you get into something for this reason it's not a hobby, it's a Buffer.

Successful men don't chase success, success chases them.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Desdinova said:
Being any sort of entertainer, whether it be a member of a band, doing stand-up comedy, etc.
There you go. I would add something "tough" like rugby/football, hockey, boxing/mma, extreme sports. And something "sweet" like volunteering. These are good hobbies to have ANYWAY by the way, and develop you as a person. Which is why they are so attractive to woman.

Listen, for the most part, what guys like and what girls like are different. You want something in common with most girls? TV, movies, food, and you're basically in there where you want to be. Me and my current girlfriend share these things in common as well as reading. Other than that it's the jokes we share, our day, our dreams, **** like that.
 
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