"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Best Hobbies....???

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What are the Best Hobbies for meeting chicks?

yeah...i know..you're not suppose to be looking for chicks while you are practicing your hobby but...fvck that crap. I'm always on the lookout....and hangin with a bunch of drunk dudes who play softball on the weekend in SWELTERING heat doesn't sound like my gig.

I know the obvious....

-Dancing
-Join a Gym

What else...what are some of the better hobbies for meeting women?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Unbridled_Phoenix

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yeah yoga sounds like a good one. Let's expand our horizons boys
 

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Yoga...that's sounds good.

I've seen some of the Yoga chicks...HOT!

Of course, Dancing is a lot of fun...and chicks love it!

I'm thinking of taking a dance class.

Anyone ever try Dance Clubs?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How about something you like????

You do hobbies because you like them. thus you invest time and energy into them. This means you actually like what your doing and are being passionate about it.
People are interesting when they can actually talk wideley about what they do and why. (Try doing that with yoga: OH yeaa i like this pose....??) I agree yoga is good, but not as a hobby.. and doing a hobby because of women is stupid, your just cutting off your own development as a humanbeeing.

Thus: Monstertruck driver.
 
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I like the great outdoors, camping, hiking, tabbing, rock climbing, canoeing, kayaking, swimming, archery and rifle range shooting.

These are my favourite activities and I go running every morning. The most important thing is that you develop hobbies that you enjoy for you, not to become more interesting to women.
 

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If you're picking up a hobby in order to meet women all you're doing is attempting to Identify with what you expect your idealized woman to appreciate. If you get into something for this reason it's not a hobby, it's a Buffer.

Successful men don't chase success, success chases them.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Desdinova said:
Being any sort of entertainer, whether it be a member of a band, doing stand-up comedy, etc.
There you go. I would add something "tough" like rugby/football, hockey, boxing/mma, extreme sports. And something "sweet" like volunteering. These are good hobbies to have ANYWAY by the way, and develop you as a person. Which is why they are so attractive to woman.

Listen, for the most part, what guys like and what girls like are different. You want something in common with most girls? TV, movies, food, and you're basically in there where you want to be. Me and my current girlfriend share these things in common as well as reading. Other than that it's the jokes we share, our day, our dreams, **** like that.
 
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