"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Best hobbies and tips in College!

socalrunner

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So I know most of you mature men went to some sort of a college, I was wondering some tips and tricks that were most successful for you in college.

I, myself, am going to be a Second year at the university of california, and I feel like I'm lacking hobbies or things to be interesting.

Please help me out!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Analytic

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I'll tell you things I din't do in college that I should have.

1. Join some clubs to make friends outside your classes
2. Don't hang with the wrong group of people, especially ones that smoke weeds. They bring your grades down and nothing but a waste of time.
3. Talk to as many girls as possible
4. Go to parties
5. Do your school work, if you slack off in school and your grade sucks you won't be able to enjoy yourself because all you'll be doing is catching up on your school work.
 

Bible_Belt

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2. Don't hang with the wrong group of people, especially ones that smoke weeds. They bring your grades down and nothing but a waste of time.

I was about to say the same thing.
 
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