"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Best hobbies and tips in College!

socalrunner

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So I know most of you mature men went to some sort of a college, I was wondering some tips and tricks that were most successful for you in college.

I, myself, am going to be a Second year at the university of california, and I feel like I'm lacking hobbies or things to be interesting.

Please help me out!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Analytic

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I'll tell you things I din't do in college that I should have.

1. Join some clubs to make friends outside your classes
2. Don't hang with the wrong group of people, especially ones that smoke weeds. They bring your grades down and nothing but a waste of time.
3. Talk to as many girls as possible
4. Go to parties
5. Do your school work, if you slack off in school and your grade sucks you won't be able to enjoy yourself because all you'll be doing is catching up on your school work.
 

Bible_Belt

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2. Don't hang with the wrong group of people, especially ones that smoke weeds. They bring your grades down and nothing but a waste of time.

I was about to say the same thing.
 
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