"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Best Hair Gel/Product...? (w.Pic)

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Sup All...

I got some thick ass hair (as you can see in my pic)... and was wondering what the best product you all use?

I like to slick my hair back sort of, but keep it a lil loose to do its thing. Want something that is strong enough to hold it, without freezing the sh!t into a plastic mold. And also, something that looks like its forever just wet. Thats how I like my hair to look. Like I just threw water in it, and ran my fingers back.

Any ideas on the best gel/moose/wax/whatever, I could use? (and in general)
Thx'

 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I like your hair man.
Just run your hands through it with some gel on your fingers, very little is needed if its good stuff. Hair spray, too, instead of .
 

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Thx man... so what kinda gel you use?
I need some sh!t that is strong enough to hold thickness, yet still have a natural just wet look. Night trying to freeze dry my sh!t.

Any1 else got some ideas/use some good stuff?
 

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Bumble and bumble make a product called "sumo wax" that you melt with a blow dryer. It leaves your hair shiny and a little wet looking, and it gives it some body and movement. Real nice product, but it's a little expensive (like $18, but what else are you gonna spend that money on?)
 

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Right on... I'll check it.
But I could think of a sh!tload to spend 18 bucks on, lol.

Any1 else use some other good products?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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No man, looking good has no price tag in it, as long as it lasts then its ok, if its 18$ for less than a months use, just find someone else who does it, theyre bound to.
 

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^^^!? lol
 

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Bump...

Best Hair Product, lets hear it!?
 

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Sumo wax would be perfect for your hair. The pot looks small but if you use it sparingly it can last three or more months, which is good because you want to be growing your hair out.
 
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