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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Best Gum/Mints for Kissing?

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So anyone who has been reading my approach journal probably noticed that a few of the girls I kissed seemed to flake out afterwards.... This has me wondering if maybe my breath is kicking......

So what do you all recommend is the best for kissing breath? I usually used Dentyne Ice Gum but I don't think its strong enough..... I then used those Listerine Strips but I got a direct complaint from a girl I kissed that they were too strong.....


So what works best for everyone!?!?
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Orbit orange seems to get really good results for me.
 

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Why is your breath like that ?

Reduce eating onions or garlic everyday .

On the day that ur gonna have something to do with women dont eat them at all . and dont eat things that have these integers , and that smells so much ..

Instead , try eating hot dogs , sandwiches and there kind of things ..

Also visit dentist . See if u have any teeth that is in bad condition ..

This will prevent bad breath .

Than u can use any gum and it will work .. For me , i use Orbit Blue or Navy colour . They have very good smell and it lasts more than some others ..
 

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When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

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Jayer said:
So what do you all recommend is the best for kissing breath? I usually used Dentyne Ice Gum but I don't think its strong enough.....
So what works best for everyone!?!?
I always have breath mints on me. I prefer Altoids and Tic Tacs. When a girl comes to my house, I'll offer her two things:

1. A bottled water
2. A breath mint

When out with girls, I offer them a breath mint. Multiple times if we're haning out long enough.

One method to make sure your breath doesn't smell is to eat something light and then brush your tounge with a toothbrush. :cheer:
 

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ER!C L!VE said:
I always have breath mints on me. I prefer Altoids and Tic Tacs. When a girl comes to my house, I'll offer her two things:

1. A bottled water
2. A breath mint

When out with girls, I offer them a breath mint. Multiple times if we're haning out long enough.

One method to make sure your breath doesn't smell is to eat something light and then brush your tounge with a toothbrush. :cheer:
How many tic tacs or altoids do you pop at at a time? You think 1 is sufficient?
 

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Give us some more info . What does your breath smell like ? Food or just bad breath ?

If its just bad breath first thing u gotta do is see dentist . Maybe u have some teeths that needs to be fixed .. and Yes , they smell :( .

Than as Bible Belt said , dont let ur stomach empty . Never

And wash ur mouth at least twice a day .
 

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Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I rinse with listerine twice a day.

I never use breath mints or gum...and I never EVER EVER have bad breath regardless whether my stomach is empty or not. I have natural smelling breath afterwards which I think is better than covering up bad breath with gum or mints.

Just my opinion.
 

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Brush your tongue, thoroughly, every time you brush your teeth. Then, chew on some Big Red if your breath deteriorates.
 
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Floss every day and buy a damn tongue scraper. Brushing the tongue with the toothbrush doesn't work. All the mouthwash and toothpaste in the world won't take care of the stinking, smelly rotten food stench from not flossing and cleaning the tongue. You'd be surprised how many guys don't do this and it is nasty and stinks you can smell their breath from 5 feet away. It smells like a rotten corpse because rotting food sits in between your teeth and on your tongue. I'm amazed they can't smell their own breath.

And they wonder why they can't get laid.
 

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Without Altoids, my love life would not exist.

And if even if you do brush, floss etc. you can't exactly bring your toothbrush and toothpaste along with you on a dinner date.
 

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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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come on, big red will zap some bad lunch smell right outta your mouth!
you know it's good when it has cinnamon .
 

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penkitten said:
come on, big red will zap some bad lunch smell right outta your mouth!
you know it's good when it has cinnamon .
Agreed. Any cinnamon gum will do you no wrong.
 

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to answer the question, by far, the best gum I have ever had that just came out is called "5" any of the flavors are REALLY good and they last a really long time, I never thought gum could last that long. I'd have to say at least 3 hours of strong flavor
 

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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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