"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Best Gum/Mints for Kissing?

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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SharinganUser

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I use Trident Watermelon Twist. I sh!t you not, this stuff can make women approach you. It's strong and women love it.
 

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floss/brush teeth/tongue/gum/mouthwash/water has been enough for me
 

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Jayer said:
So anyone who has been reading my approach journal probably noticed that a few of the girls I kissed seemed to flake out afterwards.... This has me wondering if maybe my breath is kicking......

So what do you all recommend is the best for kissing breath? I usually used Dentyne Ice Gum but I don't think its strong enough.

Maybe they flake because you are not a good kisser and don't make their knees weak, like their previous boyfriends who saw them naked and got to put it inside them.
 

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DonJuan11 said:
Maybe they flake because you are not a good kisser and don't make their knees weak, like their previous boyfriends who saw them naked and got to put it inside them.

but i've been told by others I am..... from a post I read here my style is to let them lead.....

but it sounds like tic tacs and altoids are the most favorable
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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