"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Best Friend's Recent Ex

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When they were together, I met her, became close while they were going out. He went away to college, They break up and now me and her relationship continues to climb.

They went out for a decent time, fell hard, she's convinced he's the one. She can't get over him.

Well me and her end up hooking up at parties. I'm usually act smooth, joke with her and keeping it friendly and sarcastic, we make each other laugh all the time, but when the alcohol gets in the mix, we end up getting crazy.

We both know it's bad for my best friend. We both agree to keep it secret, rumors float around.

What am I doing? Is this bad, unmoral for friendships? WTF, I think I'm starting to get feelings for her...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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keeping it secret will make you loose your friend...its bros before hoes. If you want her tell your buddy at least you will look like a man.
 
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Yeah I just went through that a year ago. Listen to me, if you keep this up, you will lose your best friend.

Remember, you can meet so many other girls, you can't meet another best friend.

Just heed my words, i've been there, and I completely fvcking regret it.
 
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