"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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When they were together, I met her, became close while they were going out. He went away to college, They break up and now me and her relationship continues to climb.

They went out for a decent time, fell hard, she's convinced he's the one. She can't get over him.

Well me and her end up hooking up at parties. I'm usually act smooth, joke with her and keeping it friendly and sarcastic, we make each other laugh all the time, but when the alcohol gets in the mix, we end up getting crazy.

We both know it's bad for my best friend. We both agree to keep it secret, rumors float around.

What am I doing? Is this bad, unmoral for friendships? WTF, I think I'm starting to get feelings for her...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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keeping it secret will make you loose your friend...its bros before hoes. If you want her tell your buddy at least you will look like a man.
 
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Yeah I just went through that a year ago. Listen to me, if you keep this up, you will lose your best friend.

Remember, you can meet so many other girls, you can't meet another best friend.

Just heed my words, i've been there, and I completely fvcking regret it.
 
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