"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Alright I'm in a bit of a weird situation, and what's crazy is I've been in a very similar situation before... but I still don't know the best way to approach it as a proper DJ would.

Some girl from on my friends list on Myspace invited me to go clubbing with her and some of her friends. Well I met up with her and her best friend at the club (this was like a week ago) and we had a really fun time. By the end of the night, I knew that they both liked me.

Here's the thing, the chick from myspace has been calling me like non-stop, and she actually doesn't live anywhere near me so I would never date her. She's actually getting kind of annoying. But her friend is really hot, and I just got her phone number last night. Are these girls gonna start competing with each other for my attention? How should I handle the situation so that I end up with the best friend, with minimal drama?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Seinfeld managed the situation by asking for a threesome. =)

Actually that is one of the situations I would back out from. I wouldn't be able to stand the bad counsciene knowing I ****ed up a relationship between two close friends.
 
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If they really are good friends, since you aren't exactly dumping one for the other just choosing one over the other, they shouldn't get pissed off at each other..

Just treat the friend as you would any other girl.
 
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Originally posted by arutha
If they really are good friends, since you aren't exactly dumping one for the other just choosing one over the other, they shouldn't get pissed off at each other..

Just treat the friend as you would any other girl.
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Maybe not out loud but the one girl will resent the other girl for the rest of her life.
 
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