"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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best friends in competition

denial

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Alright I'm in a bit of a weird situation, and what's crazy is I've been in a very similar situation before... but I still don't know the best way to approach it as a proper DJ would.

Some girl from on my friends list on Myspace invited me to go clubbing with her and some of her friends. Well I met up with her and her best friend at the club (this was like a week ago) and we had a really fun time. By the end of the night, I knew that they both liked me.

Here's the thing, the chick from myspace has been calling me like non-stop, and she actually doesn't live anywhere near me so I would never date her. She's actually getting kind of annoying. But her friend is really hot, and I just got her phone number last night. Are these girls gonna start competing with each other for my attention? How should I handle the situation so that I end up with the best friend, with minimal drama?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Lifeforce

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Seinfeld managed the situation by asking for a threesome. =)

Actually that is one of the situations I would back out from. I wouldn't be able to stand the bad counsciene knowing I ****ed up a relationship between two close friends.
 

arutha

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If they really are good friends, since you aren't exactly dumping one for the other just choosing one over the other, they shouldn't get pissed off at each other..

Just treat the friend as you would any other girl.
 

BackToTheMack

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Originally posted by arutha
If they really are good friends, since you aren't exactly dumping one for the other just choosing one over the other, they shouldn't get pissed off at each other..

Just treat the friend as you would any other girl.
Maybe not out loud but the one girl will resent the other girl for the rest of her life.
 
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