"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Best friend's GF has a HOT mother who isnt gettin on with her husband

zanzi

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Last night i went to my best friends gf's house (along with the rest of our gang) as it was her bday (lets call this girl 'X'). Now ive heard that X's parents haven't been getting along however they are trying to keep arguments to a minimum until X goes to university which will be at the end of this summer holiday (not long to go).

Now X's mother is a MILF! i mean, she must be in her 40s but she really looks like shes in her late 20's.
How would i approach an older, mature woman who has a delicate marriage at hand? Dont forget it is my best friend's girlfriend's mother.
I don't know whether i should even say anything to my Best friend, i tell him most things, he is the one who told me about this site.

Any suggestions would be appreciated!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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A woman is a woman, standard DJ moves will work, however you have to remember that her IL in you is probably about 10. Unless she's a cougar; I'd say your chances are slim to none. But if you can pull it off then you will be a king amongst kings.

GL !
 

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Well, obviously there are a lot of "ifs" in play here (understatement of the month).

If her marriage is all that shaky, and she might want to hit it with a younger guy, subtle is the key. Smile when you make eye contact. A bit of playful banter if the opportunity arises. Nothing blatant, just enough for her to get ideas in her head. She'll pick up on it, and take it from there.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

Bonhomme

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Well, obviously there are a lot of "ifs" in play here (understatement of the month).

If her marriage is all that shaky, and she might want to hit it with a younger guy, subtle is the key. Smile when you make eye contact. A bit of playful banter if the opportunity arises. Nothing blatant, just enough for her to get ideas in her head. She'll pick up on it, and take it from there.
 
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