"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Best friend's GF has a HOT mother who isnt gettin on with her husband

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Last night i went to my best friends gf's house (along with the rest of our gang) as it was her bday (lets call this girl 'X'). Now ive heard that X's parents haven't been getting along however they are trying to keep arguments to a minimum until X goes to university which will be at the end of this summer holiday (not long to go).

Now X's mother is a MILF! i mean, she must be in her 40s but she really looks like shes in her late 20's.
How would i approach an older, mature woman who has a delicate marriage at hand? Dont forget it is my best friend's girlfriend's mother.
I don't know whether i should even say anything to my Best friend, i tell him most things, he is the one who told me about this site.

Any suggestions would be appreciated!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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A woman is a woman, standard DJ moves will work, however you have to remember that her IL in you is probably about 10. Unless she's a cougar; I'd say your chances are slim to none. But if you can pull it off then you will be a king amongst kings.

GL !
 

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Well, obviously there are a lot of "ifs" in play here (understatement of the month).

If her marriage is all that shaky, and she might want to hit it with a younger guy, subtle is the key. Smile when you make eye contact. A bit of playful banter if the opportunity arises. Nothing blatant, just enough for her to get ideas in her head. She'll pick up on it, and take it from there.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Bonhomme

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Well, obviously there are a lot of "ifs" in play here (understatement of the month).

If her marriage is all that shaky, and she might want to hit it with a younger guy, subtle is the key. Smile when you make eye contact. A bit of playful banter if the opportunity arises. Nothing blatant, just enough for her to get ideas in her head. She'll pick up on it, and take it from there.
 
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