"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Best friend's GF has a HOT mother who isnt gettin on with her husband

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Last night i went to my best friends gf's house (along with the rest of our gang) as it was her bday (lets call this girl 'X'). Now ive heard that X's parents haven't been getting along however they are trying to keep arguments to a minimum until X goes to university which will be at the end of this summer holiday (not long to go).

Now X's mother is a MILF! i mean, she must be in her 40s but she really looks like shes in her late 20's.
How would i approach an older, mature woman who has a delicate marriage at hand? Dont forget it is my best friend's girlfriend's mother.
I don't know whether i should even say anything to my Best friend, i tell him most things, he is the one who told me about this site.

Any suggestions would be appreciated!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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A woman is a woman, standard DJ moves will work, however you have to remember that her IL in you is probably about 10. Unless she's a cougar; I'd say your chances are slim to none. But if you can pull it off then you will be a king amongst kings.

GL !
 
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Well, obviously there are a lot of "ifs" in play here (understatement of the month).

If her marriage is all that shaky, and she might want to hit it with a younger guy, subtle is the key. Smile when you make eye contact. A bit of playful banter if the opportunity arises. Nothing blatant, just enough for her to get ideas in her head. She'll pick up on it, and take it from there.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Well, obviously there are a lot of "ifs" in play here (understatement of the month).

If her marriage is all that shaky, and she might want to hit it with a younger guy, subtle is the key. Smile when you make eye contact. A bit of playful banter if the opportunity arises. Nothing blatant, just enough for her to get ideas in her head. She'll pick up on it, and take it from there.
 
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