"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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best friend is a cokblock..

jay07

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What to do about a cokblocking friend..

Go out tnite, he shows up later. As I'm talkin to this girl as I put it work for the first 3 quarters he comes into the 4th and tries to pull the shwoop. I brush it aside and me and her go off but later on he continues to pull the same crap. She's drunk so he's shwoing her attention and I end up walking away to get another beer and he comes up to me when I get back and goes "bro if you don't pull it I will".. at that point I just told him to go for it.

If it was a one time thing I'd just brush it off but this guy seriously does it everytime we go out, and I love the dude but idk whether I call him out or just work on my game more and leave it alone. It's like he would rather shwoop his bros than be wingman everytime. We all kno it but I'm wondering if I'm wondering if I even have a reason to be upset..
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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TheCWord

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Don't be friends with anyone who uses the word "bro." Those are always the guys who will mess with your sh--.

Problem solved.
 

Fatal Jay

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jay07 said:
What to do about a cokblocking friend..

Go out tnite, he shows up later. As I'm talkin to this girl as I put it work for the first 3 quarters he comes into the 4th and tries to pull the shwoop. I brush it aside and me and her go off but later on he continues to pull the same crap. She's drunk so he's shwoing her attention and I end up walking away to get another beer and he comes up to me when I get back and goes "bro if you don't pull it I will".. at that point I just told him to go for it.

If it was a one time thing I'd just brush it off but this guy seriously does it everytime we go out, and I love the dude but idk whether I call him out or just work on my game more and leave it alone. It's like he would rather shwoop his bros than be wingman everytime. We all kno it but I'm wondering if I'm wondering if I even have a reason to be upset..

sounds like he is the alpha and your the beta when it comes to you guys. He is not being a ****block I have had friends say that to me plenty of times "if you won't get her I will"

that's a man way of encouraging you to go ahead and get the girl and stop wasting time.

A ****block would be if he was talking trash to you in front of her or something.
 
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