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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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best friend is a cokblock..

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What to do about a cokblocking friend..

Go out tnite, he shows up later. As I'm talkin to this girl as I put it work for the first 3 quarters he comes into the 4th and tries to pull the shwoop. I brush it aside and me and her go off but later on he continues to pull the same crap. She's drunk so he's shwoing her attention and I end up walking away to get another beer and he comes up to me when I get back and goes "bro if you don't pull it I will".. at that point I just told him to go for it.

If it was a one time thing I'd just brush it off but this guy seriously does it everytime we go out, and I love the dude but idk whether I call him out or just work on my game more and leave it alone. It's like he would rather shwoop his bros than be wingman everytime. We all kno it but I'm wondering if I'm wondering if I even have a reason to be upset..
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Don't be friends with anyone who uses the word "bro." Those are always the guys who will mess with your sh--.

Problem solved.
 
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jay07 said:
What to do about a cokblocking friend..

Go out tnite, he shows up later. As I'm talkin to this girl as I put it work for the first 3 quarters he comes into the 4th and tries to pull the shwoop. I brush it aside and me and her go off but later on he continues to pull the same crap. She's drunk so he's shwoing her attention and I end up walking away to get another beer and he comes up to me when I get back and goes "bro if you don't pull it I will".. at that point I just told him to go for it.

If it was a one time thing I'd just brush it off but this guy seriously does it everytime we go out, and I love the dude but idk whether I call him out or just work on my game more and leave it alone. It's like he would rather shwoop his bros than be wingman everytime. We all kno it but I'm wondering if I'm wondering if I even have a reason to be upset..
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sounds like he is the alpha and your the beta when it comes to you guys. He is not being a ****block I have had friends say that to me plenty of times "if you won't get her I will"

that's a man way of encouraging you to go ahead and get the girl and stop wasting time.

A ****block would be if he was talking trash to you in front of her or something.
 
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