devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
oh I get what you mean now, you have a high criteria for friend, what would you say makes someone a friend?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Best friend - give me your advice
- Thread starter Teejay
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
30 odd years friendship. Been through hell together and stuck with each other having each other backs, no questions asked. Bleed together. Hunted together. Pride, trust and loyalty.
A friend would tell you the truth even when it hurts you the most.
Basic stuff.
A friend would tell you the truth even when it hurts you the most.
Basic stuff.