"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Best friend - give me your advice

devilkingx2

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As a man I would consider myself lucky to even have 4 friends, even having 2 friends makes you considerably luckier then most.

Now having 4 friends is a BIG responsibility and a HUGE strain on myself but it's worth it as you bond through your life etc.

Anyone who says they have more then 7 friends is either a liar or a fool who doesn't know the difference between an acquaintance and a friend.
oh I get what you mean now, you have a high criteria for friend, what would you say makes someone a friend?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Spaz

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30 odd years friendship. Been through hell together and stuck with each other having each other backs, no questions asked. Bleed together. Hunted together. Pride, trust and loyalty.

A friend would tell you the truth even when it hurts you the most.

Basic stuff.
 
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