“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Best first date ideas?

Rxnxg

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As the title says, enlighten me boys!
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Alvafe

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feh, list the places there is in your area, that is the first thing to do
 

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Being from Southeast Georgia in the US, I have the luxury of Savannah, Ga... talk about a "romantic city". River Street is a cobble stone road next to the Savannah river, with all kinds of little shops geared toward tourists.

Taking a date down there for a walk and listening to street performers has always worked well in my favor. If you have a little spot like this, it is highly suggested. Oddly enough, my e-wife loved to walk around a cemetery and just look at headstones. I found a lot of women like that for some reason.

Don't make a first date expensive... a picnic lunch under an overpass got me laid right there on the railroad tracks once. Whatever you decide, stay clear of movies. You can't work your magic while she's trying to watch the big screen.
 

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My recent dates include:

Comedy club
Jazz lab
Top golf
Outdoor photography(a bit different, but as a side gig I do jobs, women love it)

All of these worked great
 

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I would tell her: "I am going to [insert any place nearby] tonight. I'll pick you up around [insert time here]."
Then don't pick her up at the time you said, but instead be a few minutes late. This will make her worry.

Some first dates I always have success with are:
Hikes and Movies
 

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I prefer grabbing a drink and if it goes well, and I'm interested, moving on to something fun yet competitive.

Pool, putt putt, etc. My reason for this is to place a friendly wager on it. Kiss, massage, etc. It always gets sexual if she is down for it and many times ends in sex.

And if not, it's stuff I like doing anyways so it's a win win.
 

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My recent dates include:

Comedy club
Jazz lab
Top golf
Outdoor photography(a bit different, but as a side gig I do jobs, women love it)

All of these worked great
same opinion here, and it shouldn't cost more than $20-30
 

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Definitely, first dates should be cheap, and $20-30 is the limit. Doing something you both enjoy would be great, but nothing wrong with a coffee. The pretty woman you met on a dating site(e.g. elenasmodels.com) (or elsewhere) is not coming to do the thing, she is coming to see you, and if you are fine, then any place is fine.

Maybe avoid places that are loud. Although it could allow sitting closer, so there is an upside as well.

Movies on the first date are pretty lame, in my view. Too long and not much fun with a stranger.
 
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