"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Best DJ movies!

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Purple Rain.
 

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North by Northwest. Maybe not a pure DJ film, but Cary Grant's one-liners are just golden.
 

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World's Fastest Indian

Despite being a nerdy old man, Anthony Hopkins' character has a really winning, charming way about him that lets him get the best (and the most) out of the random people he meets.

A true lesson in being your authentic self, and also being positive, open and communicative.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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NHY said:
I might suggest a little Guy Richie called Revolver to be added to the list.

In it, the main character realises that his inner voice, that had being guiding him throughout the film, is in fact his true enemy, it is what always makes him anxious in threatening situations and makes him flip on occassions. A scene in a elevator shows him ' fighting ' with his inner voice and winning. The final scene of the film ( after he overcomes his inner voice ) shows him in a threatening situation but he is not anxious at all anymore. I'm crap at explaining things but its worth seeing, for that alone, I think.

I also recently saw Fight Club, I won't say much as it will spoil the film. But the Brad's character is indeed a good one, one who doesn't give a F*** about anything and as well as encouraging to look at society in a different way. I don't like the whole ' giving up all hope ' ideal but I agree with the ' You are not specail! ' idea, though.
Revolver is a great movie. There are two versions, the Import version is the better of the two.

The dialog on the rooftop of the Casino when they are hitting golfballs and talking about ego is awesome, and the narration in the scene when Jake Green gets hit by the car taking about validation is good as well.

It took a few viewings for me to "get" the movie as it will most people, but it makes you think and is worth the payoff the viewer gets after they figure out the meaning of it.

Far better then the overrated "Fight Club" IMO

It sounds like you saw the US version. Try to get the import version on ebay from UK sellers, although keep in mind it will be a Region 2 DVD and it probably won't work on your DVD player unless you have hacked it to play all Regional DVD's, or you have a DVD player that plays DVD's from all Regions.

If you have a DVD player on your Computer, it should work, but I can't guarantee it.

Either way, the Import version is better then the cut version of the movie that was released here in the US

I highly recommend this movie. Everyone I know who has seen it has been blown away by it. The people who don't like it just don't get it as it takes some time to figure out the metaphors in the movie, which there are plenty.
 

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Bogart as Philip Marlowe in The Big Sleep.

Carmen: You're not very tall, are you?
Marlowe: Well, I, uh, I try to be.
Carmen: Not bad looking. Oh you probably know it.
Marlowe: Thank you.
Carmen: What's your name?
Marlowe: Reilly. Doghouse Reilly.
Carmen: That's a funny kind of name.
Marlowe: You think so.
Carmen: Uh, uh. What are you? A prizefighter?
Marlowe: No, I'm a shamus.
Carmen: What's a shamus?
Marlowe: It's a private detective.
Carmen: You're making fun of me.
Marlowe: Uh, uh.
Carmen: [she leans back and falls into his arms] You're cute.
Marlowe: [to the butler, Norris] You ought to wean her, she's old enough.
 

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Goonies! Sloth was such a player!
 
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