"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Best dating site to sign up for in your opinion?

Brighty

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Tinder only goes so far, and the girls I meet on there - while hot - are probably big sloots anyway. What is, in your experience, the ideal dating site to sign up for (money isn't an object here) that you've had success with in getting hot, successful dates?

Honestly I'm 23 and I feel like I've grown out of the "meet drunk chick while you're drunk at a bar, hook up, then form a relationship out of it" - the last two girls I dated weren't into the whole bar scene either and I like being able to take them to fancy art events and sh!t. I'd rather meet up with a girl for coffee and get to know her and see if she's interesting or not, a lot of the Tinder girls I meet just wanna get plastered and hook up, which is fine to an extent but I'm looking for something more.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I hesitate to use the word "best" here. But the most popular ones are:

POF
OKCupid
 

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POF is full of trash. In fact, Tinder girls are better than POF girls by a land mile.
 

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El Payaso said:
POF is full of trash. In fact, Tinder girls are better than POF girls by a land mile.
He asked for a dating "site"..

But yeah I totally agree, Tinder is epic. I feel naive thinking all those profiles are real. But they sure do look real to me. Compared to a total sham of a site like Tagged where most profiles are fake. It looks really good...

I would go so far as to say Tinder has the best quality girls period.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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El Payaso

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SgtSplacker said:
He asked for a dating "site"..

But yeah I totally agree, Tinder is epic. I feel naive thinking all those profiles are real. But they sure do look real to me. Compared to a total sham of a site like Tagged where most profiles are fake. It looks really good...

I would go so far as to say Tinder has the best quality girls period.
Ehhh...."site". I guess if you want to be technical, yeah, Tinder isn't a dating "site" but you get the idea.
 

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I got a big ? for everyone about dating sites. Idk if this is thread worthy but I signed up for match last week. The 7day free trial. I will probably cancel. Thing is this, I'm thinking that they have a cap or restriction on how many girls reply to your messages back until after the 7 day free trial is over with. I sent at least 200 messages within 3 days. Only got back like 3-4 replies. Meanwhile other sites like pof if i sent 200 messages I would get more replies easily.

I know for a fact that Match has some hidden restrictions on free trial users until after the trial is done with..


Also to stay on topic, tagged is a joke lol. Try skout app it's pretty decent.
 

rum

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The best is eharmony if you're really looking for something serious.

match.com is pricey and has tons of good looking women (nice layout too) however it's got the most stuck up gold digging "no man is good enough for me" gold digging *****es

okcupid is alright. probably good for hookups and a few short and long term relationships. Girls are flaky on that site. Also too many travel *****s (zomg I volunteered in africa, lived in malawi, taught english in barcelona, built a library in botswana blah blah blah blah) Ever think the reason that you're single is that you never stick around long enough anywhere to develop a relationship?

POF- dumpster diving
 

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Eharmony biggest downfall I heard tho is that you cant browse for girls. They basically give you the best matches determined from their chemistry bs tests. I really dont like that so I doubt I would pay for that site.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I use OKC and Tinder. Both work well if you use good pictures and a sparse profile. Just try to get the number ASAP and it will save you a lot of time.
 

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VladPatton said:
www.ourtime.com

Gumjobs all day long, son.
hahaha

All dating sites are basically the same. Most of them have fake profiles. Some have a few better looking women than the others. Don't pay any money to talk to sub par women, but you won't find much on the free sites.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Brighty said:
Honestly I'm 23 and I feel like I've grown out of the "meet drunk chick while you're drunk at a bar, hook up, then form a relationship out of it"
When does that phase even start? When you're 20 or 21? Don't think you've matured out of that one just yet. I suspect many more drunk chicks at bars await you.
 

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Eharmony was a complete waste of money in my experience.

OKCupid is pretty good. I went on 3 dates in the first month of joining.
 

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I have done pretty well on POF. There are some skags for sure but I have gone out with and banged some pretty decent looking chicks. I think it depends a bit on your age group and geographic location.
 

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A man's online dating profile is only as strong as its worst picture.

But when you're on any site, you gotta try and make moves.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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