"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Best Dating show to learn from

BEst dating show to learn from

  • Blind Date

    Votes: 9 47.4%

  • 5th Wheel

    Votes: 1 5.3%

  • Elimidate

    Votes: 6 31.6%

  • Wanna Come Inside

    Votes: 3 15.8%
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    19
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What do you think is the best show to learn from? I think Blind Date is the best. It's alot more like real life seeing as how there are no twists or anything and it's one on one just like a real date.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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If you want to know how to treat a woman, you better invest in porn

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I think dating shows generally provide better examples of what NOT to do. Blind Date does have some good naturals once in a while. I've noticed the "studs" on Wanna Come In usually go overboard on the vauge, generic compliments.
 
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Does anyone watch 'Dissmissed' on MTV?

It is the ultimate in what not to do. Everyone on there seems to be the shallowest, most self-centred people with an absolutly repulsive personnality.
Actually, all this show does is make me weep at what kind of people this world is producing at an ever increasing rate.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by Interpol
I think dating shows generally provide better examples of what NOT to do.
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Exactly that's why I think dating shows should be watched by every guy that has trouble with women. So many guys on those shows had the girls interest in the beginning but then they say something wrong or do something wrong and kill their chances.
 
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Originally posted by pootwo
Does anyone watch 'Dissmissed' on MTV?

It is the ultimate in what not to do. Everyone on there seems to be the shallowest, most self-centred people with an absolutly repulsive personnality.
Actually, all this show does is make me weep at what kind of people this world is producing at an ever increasing rate.
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That's the worst show to watch and learn about dating. It's a competition and people will do whatever it takes to win whether they like the person or not.
 
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theres a canadian show called matchmaker, and i think its the best one out of all of them. it doesnt have that tacky, cheesy date show feel, plus the host and a friend of the ppl on the date analyze every move so everything is broken down.

sweet show
 
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Actually, all this show does is make me weep at what kind of people this world is producing at an ever increasing rate.

I agree.

Actually the only one I've ever watched more than once was blind date.

That show makes me cringe. Sometimes I get so embarressed I have to look away or change the channel.
 
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Craig of RSD fame was on Fifth Wheel (or was that Elimidate?) and won.

One of my wings also interrupted a Blind Date show, AMOGed the guy, and then later got the girl's # off camera. Got a BJ and then ditched her.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by JT47319
Craig of RSD fame was on Fifth Wheel (or was that Elimidate?) and won.

One of my wings also interrupted a Blind Date show, AMOGed the guy, and then later got the girl's # off camera. Got a BJ and then ditched her.
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what does AMOGed mean?

What episode was that? Was it when the guy interrupted the two having dinner and he made fun of the guy's shirt and said he was totally wrong for the girl? That's one of my favorite episodes.
 
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I think I saw that episode of blind date. I think I saw this happen twice. Once it was this surfer guy on the beach and a second time it was this skinny dude in a restuarant. In both cases the guy just let the AMOG handle their girl. I was laughing my ass off as to how much of a herb the male was. It is one thing to have random girl you are talking to in a club stolen, it is a whole other thing to have your date taken away from you and on national TV nonetheless.

It just goes to show that most people try to avoid conflict at all cost. I wish someone would try a stunt like that on me on a date. I would either verbally tool them or physically handle them.

In any case props to your boy. I might have to try this RSD system. I have been lurking on that other board.
 
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