"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Best date with these circumstances?

R

RoeCyris

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 9, 2005
Messages
95
Reaction score
0
I've just met this girl and I believe she is under 21 so I'm not quite sure what to do with her - I didn't break out of my social shell until i turned 21 so i dont really know what under 21 year olds do. I would and wanted to just do a starbucks kind of thing but she goes back to school in FL (VERY far away) on friday. I've gotten word that she thinks I'm "sexy" so I'm tryin to make it happen asap.

Any suggestions on a kind of date that is relativly cheap but will promote physical contact, haha.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

J

JonJack

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 1, 2005
Messages
550
Reaction score
1
Location
Malaysia
Try some games. Pool, bowling, arcade. However, as long as the two of you loosen up, there shouldn't be a problem with having physical contact practically anywhere.
 
T

Tomatoes

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 3, 2006
Messages
1,099
Reaction score
7
Age
41
Location
Nottingham
You need to take her out tonight and then setup to get in there tomorrow night. As for what date to take her on. Do whatever makes you feel comfortable and confiedent. Make a small move tonight. Then go all the way tomorrow. Thats what i would do.
 
R

RoeCyris

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 9, 2005
Messages
95
Reaction score
0
aight, good advice on the games. I like this pool hall by my house so maybe thats bet. ill call her in a lil and see what the hell happens.

Thanks guys!
 
P

Palomo

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 7, 2005
Messages
16
Reaction score
0
Age
40
hire a hotel room after 3 weeks dating if u don´t live alone, that´s what 21´s old just do if they have money, going to the hotel or just go whorin*:crackup:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top