"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Best date with these circumstances?

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RoeCyris

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I've just met this girl and I believe she is under 21 so I'm not quite sure what to do with her - I didn't break out of my social shell until i turned 21 so i dont really know what under 21 year olds do. I would and wanted to just do a starbucks kind of thing but she goes back to school in FL (VERY far away) on friday. I've gotten word that she thinks I'm "sexy" so I'm tryin to make it happen asap.

Any suggestions on a kind of date that is relativly cheap but will promote physical contact, haha.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Try some games. Pool, bowling, arcade. However, as long as the two of you loosen up, there shouldn't be a problem with having physical contact practically anywhere.
 
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You need to take her out tonight and then setup to get in there tomorrow night. As for what date to take her on. Do whatever makes you feel comfortable and confiedent. Make a small move tonight. Then go all the way tomorrow. Thats what i would do.
 
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aight, good advice on the games. I like this pool hall by my house so maybe thats bet. ill call her in a lil and see what the hell happens.

Thanks guys!
 
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hire a hotel room after 3 weeks dating if u don´t live alone, that´s what 21´s old just do if they have money, going to the hotel or just go whorin*:crackup:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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