"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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for dealing with a girl who has a boyfriend? I have a feeling she's interested but hearing from a friend that she has a boyfriend, it threw my original plan out the window.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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LCommander said:
for dealing with a girl who has a boyfriend? I have a feeling she's interested but hearing from a friend that she has a boyfriend, it threw my original plan out the window.
Game her exactly like you would any other girl, be oblivious to the fact that she even has a boyfriend.
 

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Wouldnt the gaming dynamic be different, like slower?

Does it help if I look more attractive than the bf?
 

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Whether she has a man or not should be indifferent to you.. if she DOES have a boyfriend the only way she will leave him for you is if you come across as more alpha. Would an alpha care if his target has a girlfriend or not? No, he would game her as usual and if she is not receptive he would move along because whats it to him??.. he has puzzy swooning for him left and right and one chick will never make or break him. That is the attitude you must convey.

Being better looking is not necessary but of course can never hurt you're cause. Good luck my man.
 
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