"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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LCommander

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for dealing with a girl who has a boyfriend? I have a feeling she's interested but hearing from a friend that she has a boyfriend, it threw my original plan out the window.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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LCommander said:
for dealing with a girl who has a boyfriend? I have a feeling she's interested but hearing from a friend that she has a boyfriend, it threw my original plan out the window.
Game her exactly like you would any other girl, be oblivious to the fact that she even has a boyfriend.
 

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Wouldnt the gaming dynamic be different, like slower?

Does it help if I look more attractive than the bf?
 

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Whether she has a man or not should be indifferent to you.. if she DOES have a boyfriend the only way she will leave him for you is if you come across as more alpha. Would an alpha care if his target has a girlfriend or not? No, he would game her as usual and if she is not receptive he would move along because whats it to him??.. he has puzzy swooning for him left and right and one chick will never make or break him. That is the attitude you must convey.

Being better looking is not necessary but of course can never hurt you're cause. Good luck my man.
 
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