"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Best cold approach?

Jack Hensy

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Its easy to approach a woman. The hard part is knowing what to say to get her attention.
In a bar, club or grocery store what is the most magical thing to say?

Sometimes in a club when the music is loud and a girl is dancing I will say...."You are all kinds of sexy." What is your line? Hello seems too boring. But sometimes it works.

I know my line is not as cool, but I don't care. I want her to know I want her without the BS.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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fastlife

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What you say doesn't matter. Tonality is everything. For me, my go to right now for girls where I have an ideal 1 on 1 approach: "You. What's your name. Come meet me." All very challenging, usually reaching out for a handshake & pulling her in. Then I tell her to introduce me to her friends as her gay hairdresser friend lol.

If she's with a group and I have to go indirect: "Wow, so y'all are over here judging everybody?"

But how you say it is what makes the difference between a good set and a blow out.
 

wifehunter

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"Hi, what's your name? Blah blah blah blah (insert improvised joking and funny stuff here)...see you later, beautiful/georgous!?!"
 

RedZone

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It's like anything else. The harder the work at something the better off you will be. Nothing you want is ever easy.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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