"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Best cold approach?

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Jack Hensy

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Its easy to approach a woman. The hard part is knowing what to say to get her attention.
In a bar, club or grocery store what is the most magical thing to say?

Sometimes in a club when the music is loud and a girl is dancing I will say...."You are all kinds of sexy." What is your line? Hello seems too boring. But sometimes it works.

I know my line is not as cool, but I don't care. I want her to know I want her without the BS.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What you say doesn't matter. Tonality is everything. For me, my go to right now for girls where I have an ideal 1 on 1 approach: "You. What's your name. Come meet me." All very challenging, usually reaching out for a handshake & pulling her in. Then I tell her to introduce me to her friends as her gay hairdresser friend lol.

If she's with a group and I have to go indirect: "Wow, so y'all are over here judging everybody?"

But how you say it is what makes the difference between a good set and a blow out.
 
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"Hi, what's your name? Blah blah blah blah (insert improvised joking and funny stuff here)...see you later, beautiful/georgous!?!"
 
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It's like anything else. The harder the work at something the better off you will be. Nothing you want is ever easy.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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