KarmaSutra
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:rockon:Skel said:
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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Between LA, Miami, and NYC you wont find a very big difference in the number of beautiful people, but like your post says the very very rich are the ones that come in hordes. 70 - 80k doesn't put you in the same bracket as a lot of the folks in these areas.Randallpink83 said:
Pulling that much in a place like Chicago or Boston puts you in a separate income bracket in this age range. As expensive as Boston can be to own it still is a city that is filled with locals who themselves have been bought out of the metro area, the same is true in DC which has become ridiculously expensive over the past decade. Chicago is trying to become a city that taxes people out but renting is relatively cheap in trendy parts of the city and the glut in condo developments have driven rents that much cheaper. The same seems to be happening to the boston area.
Thanks for the words of wisdom guys. The salary I gave is actually a question of lifestyle. The jobs I like pay about that amount. I am not really interested in buying property or supporting a family at this point in time. I have a condo that I rent out already so I am building equity that way. I am not really that materialistic so I don't need a fancy car, a decent new car(15-20k) is probably what I would get if I got a car at all.
Basically I don't need to be a high roller. A one bedroom or even a studio apartment is sufficient for my needs.
Basically I don't need to be a high roller. A one bedroom or even a studio apartment is sufficient for my needs.
AfRoSwiss-Disiac
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LA...is the best hands down
achtungiono
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All those cities are great.
Personally, i would go to LA. This region got Hollywood and alot of other cool places, nice weather and there are alot of hot women to meet here.
Hot women move to LA from smaller cities in hope to become movie starts, singers etc. They also spend alot of money on their looks, if you are into those women. It's alot of rich people here and if you play it right you may end up with some nice contacts, even thought that wasn't what you were looking for. But i think it's a great town.
Personally, i would go to LA. This region got Hollywood and alot of other cool places, nice weather and there are alot of hot women to meet here.
Hot women move to LA from smaller cities in hope to become movie starts, singers etc. They also spend alot of money on their looks, if you are into those women. It's alot of rich people here and if you play it right you may end up with some nice contacts, even thought that wasn't what you were looking for. But i think it's a great town.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
AfRoSwiss-Disiac
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Yea exactley plus there peopple from all over the world in LA